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    If your boyfriend/girlfriend was sending sex texts would you see it as cheating?
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    In my opinion it is, yes.
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    i would and have seen it as cheating.
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    It's not like full blown cheating, but it deserves a slap.
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    yeh it is
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    It's a bit naughty.
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    In my relationship, yes.
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    Obv, the intentions are there..
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    For me it is. For me cheating is anything you do with someone that you know would upset your gf/bf if they were stood right next to you. I know a few girls (not saying boys don't do it as well) who will only give friends a hug when their bf is around then when I see them on a girls night they are giving kisses on the cheeks and sitting on peoples laps. Even grinding etc.

    I don't do anything that would hurt my gf if she could see me doing it. End of. I see no reason too either, I get all the affection/love I need from her. Then again I'm not an attention whore like a large number of young people I know.
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    Not really. But it shows shes a simple minded attention seeking harlot who should be dumped instantaneously regardless.
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    Yes.

    Treat others how you want to be treated. If your other half did it and you wouldnt be happy with it then dont do it to them.
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    (Original post by imperial maniac)
    It's not like full blown cheating, but it deserves a slap.
    Someone's going to be an abusive husband
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    Ooooh yes. They wouldn't be getting back in my bed!
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    Of course; it's arousing. If your partner is getting aroused by someone behind your back, is that cheating or is that cheating?

    Also, LOL @ molexting!
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    (Original post by fibrebiz)
    Someone's going to be an abusive husband
    And an obedient wife

    And a prison sentence
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    If your partner wouldn't be happy about it, isn't comfortable with it, or he doesn't know about it, then it's cheating. If they know about it and are fine then obviously it isn't a problem. Depends on the couple.
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    Yep.
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    Definitely, yes.
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    Yes.
    Straight out the door.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If your boyfriend/girlfriend was sending sex texts would you see it as cheating?
    I must admit that I wouldn't be too impressed, but it does depend slightly on the context. If it was with an ex who she'd previously slept with, then I'd be massively annoyed and that would probably be a relationship finisher, but if its with someone she's never set eyes on, or has any intention of setting eyes on, and its just a release of sexual tension while we're apart, then maybe its not the end of the world. Am I stepping into controversial territory here...?
 
 
 
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