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    I'll try and make it simple.

    (Btw.. Not a newbie... long time lurker)

    I've sort of been seeing this guy.. who I am now not sure is so interested. I was really into him, although we only saw each other maybe once or twice a week due to both of us being horrifically busy. BUT recently my ex has contacted me (we broke up about a year ago) asking to meet up. Now the thing is, he has a new girlfriend - I say new, they've been going out a fair while, so why would he want to meet up with me? If I was her I don't think I'd be too happy, considering me and my ex have hooked up a few times since we split up (though I don't know if his new girlfriend knows this).

    Basically, now he's got into contact with me, I can't help but think I want him back. It's been playing on my mind for a while now - he was a great boyfriend, we had our ups and downs, but it was mainly my fault that we broke up (I wasn't a good girlfriend). So what I''m asking is - should I meet up with him? Or is this a bad idea?

    Any help much appreciated!
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    Meet with him but don't let too much **** hit the fan.

    Control yourself!
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    Well that was my thought exactly.

    I want to meet up with him, but now my friends are saying it's a really bad idea EVEN though I'm not doing anything wrong.....
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    Well so long as you dont let things get out of hand it should be fine
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    (Original post by emeraldeyes20)
    I'll try and make it simple.

    (Btw.. Not a newbie... long time lurker)

    I've sort of been seeing this guy.. who I am now not sure is so interested. I was really into him, although we only saw each other maybe once or twice a week due to both of us being horrifically busy. BUT recently my ex has contacted me (we broke up about a year ago) asking to meet up. Now the thing is, he has a new girlfriend - I say new, they've been going out a fair while, so why would he want to meet up with me? If I was her I don't think I'd be too happy, considering me and my ex have hooked up a few times since we split up (though I don't know if his new girlfriend knows this).

    Basically, now he's got into contact with me, I can't help but think I want him back. It's been playing on my mind for a while now - he was a great boyfriend, we had our ups and downs, but it was mainly my fault that we broke up (I wasn't a good girlfriend). So what I''m asking is - should I meet up with him? Or is this a bad idea?

    Any help much appreciated!
    The real question is why would you want to meet with him? Ex’s are really good for screwing up your life.

    Best wishes,
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    No I won't let things get out of hand.. I'm not like that.

    And I want to meet with him because I like talking to him and I want to hear about what he's been doing! He was a big part of my life for a while and I don't want to (can't) just forget about him!
 
 
 
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