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I'm too nervous to let my boyf going down on me watch

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    Anon or delete please

    Basically I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half now, and although we don't have sex we do .. other things. Recently he's been asking if I want him to go down on me, because he says its amazing for him. But the problem is.. I'm too nervous..! I'm very self conscious and the thought of him being... down there.. well, eurgh..
    But at the same time I'm quite curious as apparently it's amazing..!

    Anyone been in the same position?
    Any tips on how to get over this nervousness?

    Thanks
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    its amazing. its better than sex i love being licked its soo awesome. id let anyone lick me anyday but yeah dont worry about relax start kissing and get there slowly its really really nice - i orgasm everytime <3
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    How old are you? You've been with your boyfriend for over 18 months and still not had sex?!
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    Shave/wax and let him do it.
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    Well perhaps you could get a nice wax down there to make yourself feel good. Maybe have a soak in the bath/hot shower before it happens so that you feel really clean and fresh. If your boyfriend really wants to do it, then I wouldn't worry too much about him being revolted by it! You only have to try it once. If you really don't like it after that, you don't have to do it again.
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    Just do it if you're curious, once he's actually there you'll probably relax. Personally I don't actually think it's that good but other people seem to claim differently so I guess you'll see for yourself
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    if a guy wants to eat your pussy, chances are: he likes your pussy. geez
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    (Original post by M&Ms)
    its amazing. its better than sex i love being licked its soo awesome. id let anyone lick me anyday but yeah dont worry about relax start kissing and get there slowly its really really nice - i orgasm everytime <3
    Incoming ****storm of horny guys (that includes me) :perv:

    I'm sure if you let him do it just once OP you'll see (and feel :sexface:) just how wrong you were to be nervous.
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    Have you been down on him? Maybe you could try 69 so you;re both doing something and receivig at the same time.

    I would have a nice bath/shower so you;re not worried about smells. Have some drinks, lay in bed together and start with light touching and kissing and let things develop naturally.

    The first time is nerve wracking but when you get over that, its wow!! You wont regret doing it. Plus he actually wants to so consider yourself lucky he's not replused by it

    * Neg rep - what the hell for!
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    I do know what you mean; it can be a bit daunting the first time.

    But seriously. This guy says it's 'amazing' for him? I will consider it a personal insult to womankind if you do not launch your ladygarden at his face as a matter of urgency.
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    Every girl is different. Some prefer a good licking, others a good dicking.

    You've done neither.

    Once he's there, you won't look back. As Nike would say; "Just do it!"
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    odour?
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    let him go up on you then?
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    (Original post by Nigel9)
    odour?
    A good, solid argument. Well done Sir
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    I assume 'other things' includes him using his fingers..

    I was in the exact same position as you not too long ago.. But my boyfriend just told me to relax and try it.. And it is amazing, thought its not for everybody.. Make sure your clean and tidy.. And in a place without interruptions, and if you don't enjoy it, don't do it again! Oral should be a two way street, your man jsyt wants to please you, so let him!
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    Just go for it and see what happens. There is really nothing to be nervous about.
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    odour?

    I'm embarrassed that he might think I smell down there.. or look weird
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    Bowcat.....
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm embarrassed that he might think I smell down there.. or look weird
    I have heard of other cases where females have similar apprehensions.
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    a lot of guys wouldnt dream of trying it, if he's down for the lickin then show him the chicken
 
 
 
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