Given boyfriend hand jobs but haven't had courage to move onto blowjob...

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Reply 60

kevin123

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Reply 61

crazycake93

Talk to him about it.... while you talk, he'll probably take the oppertunity to place his penis in your mouth

Reply 62

Steezy

Original post by DrummerG

Finger up the bum at the same time...
I think that sums it's up. Maybe later on in the relationship, but I'd rather my misses didn't stick her flanges up my crack to be honest.

Yeah but she's clearly taking the piss and I thought it was pretty funny....

Reply 63

NeonSkies

Original post by amime

For having a preference?

I just think it's wierd how you have an issue with your partner kissing you afterwards, that's all. Seems a bit OTT seeing as nothing will be there, I doubt they would kiss you when is all still there.

Reply 64

DrummerG

Original post by Steezy

Yeah but she's clearly taking the piss and I thought it was pretty funny....

I didn't mean to come across so serious, apologies. I did laugh too.. honest. :smile:

Reply 65

riotgrrl

Original post by Doughnuts!!

Boy do I feel sorry for your boyfriend.

Sex(ual activities) are all about spontaneity and doing it in the heat of the moment. It's just a bit of a mood killer if you ask him, "Do you want a bj?" beforehand.

Oh yeah, and if he says no, there's something wrong with him. :h:

There ARE sexier ways to ask :tongue:

OP, if you're nervous about doing something, hopefully talking to your partner about it will make you feel better. Oh and it is perfectly normal to not have given him a blowjob after a month. Chill out and do it when you feel like you'd ENJOY doing it.

Reply 66

StefanieLouise

Just suck it up and do it.
Pun intended.

Reply 67

amime

Original post by NeonSkies

When you say you say kiss do you mean full on French or just a load of pecks on the lips?

I don't mind the latter. But French afterwards just seems odd to me... :s-smilie:

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 68

NeonSkies

Original post by amime

When I say you say kiss do you mean full on French or just a load of pecks on the lips?

I don't mind the latter. But French afterwards just seems odd to me... :s-smilie:

Ohh fair enough. Just a peck I meant :smile:

Reply 69

Charlottelisabeth

Communication is the key to successful relationships :tongue:

. The only thing you can do is ask him. If you feel ready and he's up for it then just take it slow for your 1st time, ask him what he does and doesn't like if you're worried you won't be able to satisfy you. Perfection comes with practice! :wink:

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Some people don't like giving oral and some don't even like receiving it so it's not strange at all if you haven't given/received oral yet. Don't worry! :smile:

Reply 70

Potential Trigger

Original post by Anonymous

I want to give my boyfriend a blow job but i don't want to just go and do it in case he's not into oral sex (he hasn't done anything orally to me yet). How can i ask him if he wants one? And is it weird not to have yet? Oh and we've been going out just over a month, but i've known him longer. Advice pleeeeease :biggrin:

Worried your bf is not into oral sex? No such thing :colondollar:

You don't need to ask, just unzip him and watch the magic happen :biggrin:

Reply 71

Davezk

Sex is way better than oral sex.

Reply 72

NW86

Original post by cruciform

Fear me, I've killed hundreds of Timelords.

Fear Me.

I've killed them all.

EDIT:

Awwhhhh, beaten to it!

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 73

Anonymous #1

The deed has been done people, no need to fear anymore (this is the OP). Thanks for the advice and encouragement, SO worth doing!!!

Reply 74

philbphil

[QUOTE='rach [shikari];30626215']make sure it goes all the way down your throat else he wont like it :P oh and a finger up the bum at the same time yeh

I've only ever dated one girl who could get all the way to the bottom and it felt incredible :daydreaming: