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Is it unfair to tell your boyfriend you'll break up with him if he goes to Amsterdam? watch

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I know this is old but this is for everyone Your being harshI am going to Amsterdam with my boyfriend now I'm lucky because my boyfriend is decent and would never pay for sex. However no I don't think your being unreasonable because although there is trust there putting temptation is such a worry. I trust my Boyf but I would hate him to go to Amsterdam with his mates drinking and stuff and this is why although he is a decent guy he is still a maleThe science of males is they all like to be alpha male and everyone knows that there boyfriend watches porn and if a gorgeous girl was offering sex at the cheap prices they do and there drunk and when a guy gets drunk and high they usually want sex and there not thinking strate it is the nature of every male. Yes my boyfriend is decent but the temptations there and anything could happen ad the type of person I am I see it as cheating and why would you let your boyfriend cheat the whole point of being in a relatipnship is to be loyal to eachother and be togetherIt's a bit strong saying youll break up with him but if I was in your position I wouldn't feel comfortable but talk to him and explain the situation in reverse when I do that to my boyfriend it works
    "The science of males". Slow down, Stephen Hawking, you're blowing my mind with your incredible psychological insight.
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    My bf is goin to dam staying right next to redlight district on the 24th December thats why im ****in my guy off goin away for Christmas to be around dirty hookers not tho he knows it the way I see it when he goes dam to play ill go fuvk next man simple you can garentee he will cheat so why not play away yourself
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    Put it all the way around, would you want him to break up with you if you went on holiday with your girls?
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    I'm in the same boat my boyfriend wants to go with his 2 single friends who have a dirty reputation and they are going to stay in a hostal I spoke to him about it told him I didn't like the idea but he wants to go anyway I no he loves the canibis so I offered to go just us to but he also wants to go alone with his friends I just can't do it so I gave him the ultimatum I never stop him from going out with his friends but I feel like he's going to fair with this one what should I do??
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    (Original post by rach [shikari])
    He will probably get o stoned he cant get it up anyway.
    this doesn't happen just fyi
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    That's completely ridiculous. It's not up to you where he goes on holiday and if you don't trust him then what's the point in having the relationship anyway? Jesus I don't understand why girls try and control their boyfriends and then get all upset when they get dumped😂
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    (Original post by sophisticated)
    If you don't trust him, why are you in a relationship?

    Simple question really...
    OP is being fair.


    Trust is earned and trust is earned by choices made; if he cares about his gf why is he making the choice to go to a redlight district?

    (Original post by ForgetMe)
    Put it all the way around, would you want him to break up with you if you went on holiday with your girls?
    I would cut a girl off for going to a well known hook up resort like Boracay.
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    You're a ****ing prick. She's obviously felling really anxious about it. Imagine your girlfriend wanted to go with all her girl pals to the land of male sex workers and get high for two weeks? He is obviously gonna cheat on her. It's not fair to call her a
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    yeah it is unreasonable just let him go & if he cheats on you he's clearly a piece of shiz and u should dump him. if you tell him not to go and he actually doesn't then all you're doing is delaying the inevitable. also don't be that person that separates their partner from their friends
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    I think you are being reasonable.

    Amsterdam has a reputation and 'boys will be boys'....

    I wouldn't be happy if some guy I was dating saying he was going to Red Light District. It just ain't right regardless of whether he's faithful or not.

    You are not being a 'bore' or anything that the opposing views are saying.

    You have a right to think the way you do and I can totally empathise with it.
 
 
 
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