Girls at bars and clubs for getting relationships

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Is it a good idea to for meeting girls at bars and clubs to get their number and ask them out. I've been told that relationships that start out like this never do come out well. What do you think? Or is better to know and get girls through other means??

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Reply 1

Paralellapiped

Wow, someone's desperate

Reply 2

sil3nt_cha0s

Just have an open mind.

Reply 3

Refrigerator

Original post by Anonymous

I'd say most girls at bars and clubs are just looking for a good time, if you're looking for a serious relationship it's not really the place

Reply 4

infernalcradle

just go to a club...and go with the flow tbh

Reply 5

bananabrain

My sister met her husband in a nightclub! so yeah it can work sometimes.

Reply 6

ShinyLittleTit™

Original post by bananabrain

My sister met her husband in a nightclub! so yeah it can work sometimes.

for how long have they been married?

Reply 7

bananabrain

Original post by ShinyLittleTit™

for how long have they been married?

18 months now.. but have been together for 5 years in total.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Original post by bananabrain

My sister met her husband in a nightclub! so yeah it can work sometimes.

Well this confuses me, so it is acceptable to ask girls for numbers when at a bar/club?

Reply 9

Dekota-XS

Step 1) Go out in broad daytime with a non-creepy frame of mind
Step 2) Choose a girl walking on her own
Step 3) Approach said girl with topic of conversation in mind
Step 4) Start conversation with girl
Step 5) Prepare for what ensues next

Reply 10

bananabrain

Original post by Anonymous

Well this confuses me, so it is acceptable to ask girls for numbers when at a bar/club?

Yeah it is acceptable! Not all will give it to you though... some are only out looking for a one night thing, nothing longer! But keep trying and im sure you'll find someone :smile:

as i said, it all worked out for my sister.

Reply 11

Lexi99

Of course its acceptable. People do get into relationships after meeting at clubs and even more often people exchange numbers, but i would say, dont expect anything to happen. Dont go to a club with the intention of finding a girlfriend.

Just go have fun, meet hot girls, if you like them get their number, see if they wanna see you again, ask them out for a drink, see where it goes

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

Original post by Dekota-XS

Step 1) Go out in broad daytime with a non-creepy frame of mind

It'll be creepy if you approach a girl in the daytime won't it??

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

Original post by Lexi99

Is the daytime not acceptable to really do it if you don't mind me asking?

Reply 14

Lexi99

Original post by Anonymous

Is the daytime not acceptable to really do it if you don't mind me asking?

It depends on the situation like if you struck up a conversatoion with a girl in a cafe or something, or even the supermarket, and it was going well then that would be ok.

Walking up to a randomer in the street and asking for her number with any 'foreplay' so to speak is a bit weird

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

Original post by Lexi99

How would you strike up a convo with a girl in a cafe lol? Never seen it before in my life.
Also, let say if I offered to buy a girl a drink at the student union bar in the daytime at uni, won't she find it annoying if I start talking to her if she just wants a drink with her mates after a lecture.

Reply 16

hfreaks

Bars and bups ?

I say no no no and no no

Reply 17

Lexi99

Original post by Anonymous

Well she might, you'll just have to gauge her reaction yourself. Some girls wont mind, some will think its weird, you might even just catch her on a bad day. Nothing wrong with at least giving it a go though but remember to back off as soon as you think shes not interested. Nothing worse than a clingy guy who wont leave you alone.