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    Is it a good idea to for meeting girls at bars and clubs to get their number and ask them out. I've been told that relationships that start out like this never do come out well. What do you think? Or is better to know and get girls through other means??
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    Wow, someone's desperate
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    Just have an open mind.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
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    Is it a good idea to for meeting girls at bars and clubs to get their number and ask them out. I've been told that relationships that start out like this never do come out well. What do you think? Or is better to know and get girls through other means??
    I'd say most girls at bars and clubs are just looking for a good time, if you're looking for a serious relationship it's not really the place
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    just go to a club...and go with the flow tbh
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    My sister met her husband in a nightclub! so yeah it can work sometimes.
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    (Original post by bananabrain)
    My sister met her husband in a nightclub! so yeah it can work sometimes.
    for how long have they been married?
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    (Original post by ShinyLittleTit™)
    for how long have they been married?
    18 months now.. but have been together for 5 years in total.
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    My sister met her husband in a nightclub! so yeah it can work sometimes.
    Well this confuses me, so it is acceptable to ask girls for numbers when at a bar/club?
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    Step 1) Go out in broad daytime with a non-creepy frame of mind
    Step 2) Choose a girl walking on her own
    Step 3) Approach said girl with topic of conversation in mind
    Step 4) Start conversation with girl
    Step 5) Prepare for what ensues next
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Well this confuses me, so it is acceptable to ask girls for numbers when at a bar/club?
    Yeah it is acceptable! Not all will give it to you though... some are only out looking for a one night thing, nothing longer! But keep trying and im sure you'll find someone as i said, it all worked out for my sister.
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    Of course its acceptable. People do get into relationships after meeting at clubs and even more often people exchange numbers, but i would say, dont expect anything to happen. Dont go to a club with the intention of finding a girlfriend.

    Just go have fun, meet hot girls, if you like them get their number, see if they wanna see you again, ask them out for a drink, see where it goes
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    Step 1) Go out in broad daytime with a non-creepy frame of mind
    It'll be creepy if you approach a girl in the daytime won't it??
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    Of course its acceptable. People do get into relationships after meeting at clubs and even more often people exchange numbers, but i would say, dont expect anything to happen. Dont go to a club with the intention of finding a girlfriend.

    Just go have fun, meet hot girls, if you like them get their number, see if they wanna see you again, ask them out for a drink, see where it goes
    Is the daytime not acceptable to really do it if you don't mind me asking?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Is the daytime not acceptable to really do it if you don't mind me asking?
    It depends on the situation like if you struck up a conversatoion with a girl in a cafe or something, or even the supermarket, and it was going well then that would be ok.

    Walking up to a randomer in the street and asking for her number with any 'foreplay' so to speak is a bit weird
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    It depends on the situation like if you struck up a conversatoion with a girl in a cafe or something, or even the supermarket, and it was going well then that would be ok.

    Walking up to a randomer in the street and asking for her number with any 'foreplay' so to speak is a bit weird
    How would you strike up a convo with a girl in a cafe lol? Never seen it before in my life.
    Also, let say if I offered to buy a girl a drink at the student union bar in the daytime at uni, won't she find it annoying if I start talking to her if she just wants a drink with her mates after a lecture.
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    Bars and bups ?

    I say no no no and no no
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How would you strike up a convo with a girl in a cafe lol? Never seen it before in my life.
    Also, let say if I offered to buy a girl a drink at the student union bar in the daytime at uni, won't she find it annoying if I start talking to her if she just wants a drink with her mates after a lecture.
    Well she might, you'll just have to gauge her reaction yourself. Some girls wont mind, some will think its weird, you might even just catch her on a bad day. Nothing wrong with at least giving it a go though but remember to back off as soon as you think shes not interested. Nothing worse than a clingy guy who wont leave you alone.
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    I worked a couple of years ago with someone who met her husband in a bar, some ten years ago.
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    A lot of people will say no, but I met my boyfriend in a metal club and its been well over 4 years now. So it can work.
 
 
 
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