I met my boyfriend on a night out, been together couple of months now. I dont see anything wrong with it, sure there will be cases when people arent really looking for relationships or anything more but there will be those that are.
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Girls at bars and clubs for getting relationships watch
- 31-03-2011 23:37
- 31-03-2011 23:52
My parents met in a nightclub that I now go to regularly haha. I have been in a relationship since well before my clubbing days so I don't pick up girls in clubs, I just talk and dance with them like I would anyone else. My single friends have had a few short lived relationships with girls met in clubs, nothing serious or anything but that doesn't mean as a rule all girls in clubs just want a quick seeing to. Its hard to identify any qualities in a person you meet in a club, other than physical attraction and general personality type - whether they are confident, shy, well spoken or not, etc. Its a piece of cake to get talking and flirting with a girl in a club as long as you aren't a total creep. Ask for their number and text them at a later date with small talk and go from there. Remember why you go clubbing though, girls are probably there for a similar reason. I go to very musical orientated club nights because I love good music, hanging out with my friends and loosening up with a drink and a dance. A girl is probably there for the same reason, for music, relaxing, socialising with friends, fun. None of them are expecting to meet their future husband and you shouldn't come across as that sort of person and have expectations higher than in any other situation. When you meet the right person it comes out of nowhere. Don't go looking for that in a nightclub though.
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- 01-04-2011 00:04
- 01-04-2011 00:12
- 01-04-2011 00:18
I don't understand what people have against girls in clubs, I'm a nice normal girl, have a lovely boyfriend and enjoy clubbing. Saying that my bf is usually with me when i'm out