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    Ok I know this is slight paranoia, but I got this idea lately that a guy taped us during sex, with webcam or sth. I slept with him a week ago (we've slept together once before, he lives in another city, not dating or anything), and he had put his computer up (with his iTunes playlist). The computer was facing us the entire time, and something combined with the fact that he was mad at me that day plus the fact that he is always eager to "show me off" to his friends, got me the idea that maybe he had some video function up. Is this totally crazy? He left the room a couple of times and I was changing stuff on his playlist, so maybe if he has a camera up he wouldn't have let me be alone with the computer? (Didn't think about it at the time, so didn't change program to check). Also, I figured out later he has a gf (yeah, I know, nice guy, right), so maybe he wouldn't publish sth like that if she could find out. What do you all think.
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    Become a pornstar instead of going university.
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    its a possibility. the potential damage is done now though.

    you obviously don't trust this guy at all, so perhaps you should stop sleeping with him
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    Did he keep looking at the computer and giving it the thumbs-up?
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    I think you're paranoid. He probably wouldn't have been bait enough to have the computer all obvious and stuff if he was going to film you. That said, he seems like a charming individual who doesn't much care for your feelings so it's a possibility. Good luck with that, I hope it works out for you.
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    I am not seeing him again !
    I was just wondering if there is any way I could find out for sure. But I suppose there are millions of websites for that kind of stuff.
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    I did that once.

    But she was rich so I sold it back her along with the laptop for good measure.
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    Ok so your reasons are:
    - PC facing you
    - mad at you
    - likes to show you off

    Doesn't sound sufficient.

    The only thing possible is that he is good with computers (or just good with computers in that area) and knows a kind programm that would make the camera film without anyone noticing the camera.
    Now that I think about it, that would actually be pretty smart. I mean, to deploy an actual camera could get him cought easily as soon as you see it. But this way he can just play his music innocently.

    Yeah, maybe you were filmed. Was there a light turned on at the point where the laptop is? not every, but most laptop's camera turns on a light when it's being used.
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    Not really a lot you can do now if you're not gonna see him again. Not worth worrying over really!
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    Ive heard of websites where guys upload videos of their (ex) girlfriends. Maybe you should check them out to see if youre on there! I very much doubt he filmed you though.
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    It's just circumstantial that the laptop was facing you, he had it on and facing you because you were listening to music (I presume seeing as itunes was up on it) so I wouldn't read too much into it. Plus you're right, if he has a gf then I'm sure he doesn't want to publicise his infidelity.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I am not seeing him again !
    I was just wondering if there is any way I could find out for sure. But I suppose there are millions of websites for that kind of stuff.
    Was there a light on next to the cam, as far as i'm aware pretty much all computers with a cam have a light that comes on when the cam is switched on. If there wasn't i'm pretty sure there is nothing to worry about
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    You just sound paranoid.
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    (Original post by didgeridoo12uk)
    its a possibility. the potential damage is done now though.

    you obviously don't trust this guy at all, so perhaps you should stop sleeping with him
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ok I know this is slight paranoia, but I got this idea lately that a guy taped us during sex, with webcam or sth. I slept with him a week ago (we've slept together once before, he lives in another city, not dating or anything), and he had put his computer up (with his iTunes playlist). The computer was facing us the entire time, and something combined with the fact that he was mad at me that day plus the fact that he is always eager to "show me off" to his friends, got me the idea that maybe he had some video function up. Is this totally crazy? He left the room a couple of times and I was changing stuff on his playlist, so maybe if he has a camera up he wouldn't have let me be alone with the computer? (Didn't think about it at the time, so didn't change program to check). Also, I figured out later he has a gf (yeah, I know, nice guy, right), so maybe he wouldn't publish sth like that if she could find out. What do you all think.
    I think you're worried over nothing.

    If he has there's nothing you can do, but if he shows it to anyone, that'll make him look like the ******** and not you. He'll look like an absolute idiot for showing stuff like that to people and no girls will want to date someone like that, so he'd have more to lose than you would.
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    Whether it is true or not seems irrelevant as you have no way of being certain if he has a video or knowing if he has posted it/sent it around. The damage is done either way. Only thing to do now is learn from the experience and maybe trust a guy before you sleep with him? That way you won't be as paranoid.
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    Lemme check RedTube and XVidoes for you. Only for you. See how nice I am. I don't even want to watch porn, but i'll check the websites thoroughly just for you.
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    Did you see a camera or any windows on the computer? But why are you having sex with someone who you obviously believe can do this to you????
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    (Original post by misscharli)
    Ive heard of websites where guys upload videos of their (ex) girlfriends. Maybe you should check them out to see if youre on there! I very much doubt he filmed you though.
    Just a couple of billions, lol
 
 
 
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