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    Ive been in a LDR with my girlfriend for just over a month....although ive known her for about 6 months.... Ive planned on meeting her tomorrow and because in the time it takes to get up there and back, and the issues with train times and such, shes asked her mum whether I could stay the night... which we thought would be no problem, seeing as Ive already done this twice with her... We have the chance to see each other maybe once a month... sometimes two if were lucky...

    Problem arrises when her and her mum have a fall out... meaning her mumdoesnt let me stay over for the night... Shes aksed me whether I want to go to a house party at one of her friends to stay the night... But im not sure what her mum would think of me if I did... Her mum really likes me, and its more of a punishment on my girlfriends side rather than mine... I really want to go, but am worried of what her mum would say if she found out...

    Should I go up there and go to the house party with her, chancing that if her mum finds out, she could fall out, and stop me from sleeping over again?
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    If you're not living life on the edge, you're taking up too much room.....:rolleyes:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ive been in a LDR with my girlfriend for just over a month....although ive known her for about 6 months.... Ive planned on meeting her tomorrow and because in the time it takes to get up there and back, and the issues with train times and such, shes asked her mum whether I could stay the night... which we thought would be no problem, seeing as Ive already done this twice with her... We have the chance to see each other maybe once a month... sometimes two if were lucky...

    Problem arrises when her and her mum have a fall out... meaning her mumdoesnt let me stay over for the night... Shes aksed me whether I want to go to a house party at one of her friends to stay the night... But im not sure what her mum would think of me if I did... Her mum really likes me, and its more of a punishment on my girlfriends side rather than mine... I really want to go, but am worried of what her mum would say if she found out...

    Should I go up there and go to the house party with her, chancing that if her mum finds out, she could fall out, and stop me from sleeping over again?
    You sound like a dull ****. Are you sleepign with her mum? If not, then you shouldn't give a **** what she thinks.
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    Well who do you value more, your girlfriend, or your girlfriends mum?

    I can't see how her mum could reasonably hold any grudge towards you for wanting to see your girlfriend and sleeping somewhere else anyway.
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    So her mum is letting her stay out at a party but not have you round? Strange kind of punishment... Just go!
 
 
 
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