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    My boyfriend talks about other girls a lot. From remarking on girls on the street, to talking about porn, everything. I'm not normally insecure about my body, but I just don't like him doing all that. I stayed quiet for months, but finally cracked and had a go at him, about how it's disrespectful to me.

    He told me that it' not fair I "go on" at him, and that it's "who he is" and that it's unfair for me to repress him.

    I asked him if he was ok, and he said he wasn't, and just left.

    How do I salvage this??
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    Try and talk to him. Tell him you don't like how he's disrespecting you. If you can't establish that mutual respect, then I don't think it'd work out.

    TSR version: GET RID!1
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    Comment on fit guys in the street. Then say what he says to defend himself.
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    (Original post by chrislpp)
    Comment on fit guys in the street. Then say what he says to defend himself.
    This. See how he likes it.
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    (Original post by chrislpp)
    Comment on fit guys in the street. Then say what he says to defend himself.
    Haha, perfect advice.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My boyfriend talks about other girls a lot. From remarking on girls on the street, to talking about porn, everything. I'm not normally insecure about my body, but I just don't like him doing all that. I stayed quiet for months, but finally cracked and had a go at him, about how it's disrespectful to me.

    He told me that it' not fair I "go on" at him, and that it's "who he is" and that it's unfair for me to repress him.

    I asked him if he was ok, and he said he wasn't, and just left.

    How do I salvage this??
    Lol tell him he's a perv and move on in life Don't want a bad life :gah:
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    um i think you should sit down and talk to him and just tell him you don't like it when he talks about girls but say it nicely and have a nice calm, quiet conversation

    good luck
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    Telling him to stop talking about other girls is 'repressing' him? :facepalm: I'll try killing someone and then telling the judge on my murder trial that he's unfairly repressing my urge to kill people, I'll see if he looks guilty.
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    You're repressing him? Aww diddums.
    I would recommend a calm, adult conversation- but he seems like a right child, so follow the advice on this thread and see how he likes it when you talk about other guys.
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    (Original post by chrislpp)
    Comment on fit guys in the street. Then say what he says to defend himself.
    Do this, and let us know how it goes. I'm curious.
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    he sounds like a child.tell him to man up and actually talk to you.otherwise...
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    where are you in the relationship here?

    and if it doesnt work...

    CIRCLE OF LIFE: DUMP BEFORE YOU GET DUMPED.
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    Seriously you want to salvage what you have? He sounds like a ****.
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    (Original post by Carnivores)
    he sounds like a child.tell him to man up and actually talk to you.otherwise...
    http://www.productiveflourishing.com...09/circles.gif
    where are you in the relationship here?

    and if it doesnt work...

    CIRCLE OF LIFE: DUMP BEFORE YOU GET DUMPED.
    what a **** picture

    op, just get even, everyone agrees
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My boyfriend talks about other girls a lot. From remarking on girls on the street, to talking about porn, everything. I'm not normally insecure about my body, but I just don't like him doing all that. I stayed quiet for months, but finally cracked and had a go at him, about how it's disrespectful to me.

    He told me that it' not fair I "go on" at him, and that it's "who he is" and that it's unfair for me to repress him.

    I asked him if he was ok, and he said he wasn't, and just left.

    How do I salvage this??
    you joined in 1999. your boyfriend has dumped you
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    (Original post by gilesthewhale)
    you joined in 1999. your boyfriend has dumped you
    That's what comes up for anon. Stop looking so pleased with yourself.
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    some one is jealous...

    my advice: get the f*** over it... or he will dump you for being a jealous b****
 
 
 
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