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    Theres this girl at my college P.S. TL-DR's GTFO of my thread.
    Originally I just thought she was a very pretty face, and I was going to get on with my life. Then I saw her hanging around with some of the girls I knew. And I thought on the off-chance I would look her up on FB. Private, but she left a link to Tumblr blog so I checked it out.


    Is the mainstay of it. That kind of stuff makes me die a little inside everytime I look at it because I felt(feel?) the same way. (I did see her, eyes shot & watered at a table weeks before this, but nothing clicked in my head at the time. Bodes well :lol:)

    What I gathed is that shes moved from the other side of the country and is really feeling it. I rarely see her with other people. (1/2 the time shes not even in so..)

    She's stuck in my head now because I feel like we are looking for the same thing, and I could do somthing, I dont even know her.
    but im the non-aproaching-chaste-&-pure-from-afar kind of total pussy. Whey hey!
    I can sit on my hands for months quite happily (well, unhappily but whatever) But its just the idea that I could make a difference this time is driving me MAD!

    Im far too easily garnered

    She is an acquaintance of an acquaintance. We do not know each other, and It appears shes not going to come back around to my group, at least I dont have time to wait for that, and do things normally for a change.

    So what do I do? Im sick to death of sitting on my hands and having these opportunities pass me by, and shes not gonna fall in my lap ethier :dry:
    Im charm-defcient to, so no chat up lines please. Ive only got the get-down-on-one-knee-unlikely-fairtytale option.


    Gives me hope that she wont just brush me off or laugh :lol:

    But its a month old? My main fear is that I rock up to her with all my hopeless romanticism and found out that I have her figured her all wrong.
    What if it turns out im the third in queue? Or is it even my right to assume the role of saviour, sweep her off and be done with this all? does she need saving? what am I saving her from? Why am I asking all these rhetorical questions? Do you think having a sense of humor in all this is a good thing? How ****faced will I look if I forget to turn Annon on in my reply?

    Am I just being a massive, loose, shriveled pussy? (again)

    What would you do, and what would your reaction to me be?

    I wouldnt be posting without intent, its taken a good deal to get to this stage.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Theres this girl at my college P.S. TL-DR's GTFO of my thread.


    Am I just being a massive, loose, shriveled pussy? (again)

    What would you do, and what would your reaction to me be?

    I wouldnt be posting without intent, its taken a good deal to get to this stage.
    As long as you don't let that word spring up in a court case In all seriousness, don't overthink these things. Life is a lot simpler than people often think it is!
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    There's this girl at your college?
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    Reading that, it sounds like you have a good attitude towards the whole thing. I would say the first thing to do is establish your existence a little bit but obviously you know that already (kudos to me for stating the obvious). How? I think ask her anything at all.. like even a two minute silly thing like the time, or whatever or where something is. Anything. And after that you've spoken to her once so you can wave and smile to her whenever you see her after that and it won't be weird and work your way up from there.. like going from waving to stopping and chatting for a bit to hanging out perhaps, etc.

    And in that way you get to know her a bit too so you can see if the image you have built off her in your head matches her persona. It's a bit of a gradual patience requiring approach but then again its better than sitting on your hands happily/unhappily for months on end :p: I think the main thing I'm getting at is that you talk to her and then worry about getting with her and all that jazz once you're atleast on a first name and talking basis. Step by step otherwise you can overthink stuff to no end.

    (ps: not sure if I read your post entirely correctly - I didn't get the bit about "it's a month old". Maybe I'm just being a bit slow)
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    (Original post by Preeka)
    "it's a month old". Maybe I'm just being a bit slow)
    Second image is a month old.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Theres this girl at my college P.S. TL-DR's GTFO of my thread.
    Originally I just thought she was a very pretty face, and I was going to get on with my life. Then I saw her hanging around with some of the girls I knew. And I thought on the off-chance I would look her up on FB. Private, but she left a link to Tumblr blog so I checked it out.


    Is the mainstay of it. That kind of stuff makes me die a little inside everytime I look at it because I felt(feel?) the same way. (I did see her, eyes shot & watered at a table weeks before this, but nothing clicked in my head at the time. Bodes well :lol:)

    What I gathed is that shes moved from the other side of the country and is really feeling it. I rarely see her with other people. (1/2 the time shes not even in so..)

    She's stuck in my head now because I feel like we are looking for the same thing, and I could do somthing, I dont even know her.
    but im the non-aproaching-chaste-&-pure-from-afar kind of total pussy. Whey hey!
    I can sit on my hands for months quite happily (well, unhappily but whatever) But its just the idea that I could make a difference this time is driving me MAD!

    Im far too easily garnered

    She is an acquaintance of an acquaintance. We do not know each other, and It appears shes not going to come back around to my group, at least I dont have time to wait for that, and do things normally for a change.

    So what do I do? Im sick to death of sitting on my hands and having these opportunities pass me by, and shes not gonna fall in my lap ethier :dry:
    Im charm-defcient to, so no chat up lines please. Ive only got the get-down-on-one-knee-unlikely-fairtytale option.


    Gives me hope that she wont just brush me off or laugh :lol:

    But its a month old? My main fear is that I rock up to her with all my hopeless romanticism and found out that I have her figured her all wrong.
    What if it turns out im the third in queue? Or is it even my right to assume the role of saviour, sweep her off and be done with this all? does she need saving? what am I saving her from? Why am I asking all these rhetorical questions? Do you think having a sense of humor in all this is a good thing? How ****faced will I look if I forget to turn Annon on in my reply?

    Am I just being a massive, loose, shriveled pussy? (again)

    What would you do, and what would your reaction to me be?

    I wouldnt be posting without intent, its taken a good deal to get to this stage.
    When was the last time you saw her? How do you know she's moved to the other side of the country if you don't really know her?

    A month old :confused: you feelings for her are a months old I don't really understand.

    Even if there was a chance that you saw her again would you even do or say anything to her?

    Edit I read above about the picture being a month old don't worry.
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    (Original post by ForeverGold)
    When was the last time you saw her? How do you know she's moved to the other side of the country if you don't really know her?

    A month old :confused: you feelings for her are a months old I don't really understand.

    Even if there was a chance that you saw her again would you even do or say anything to her?

    Edit I read above about the picture being a month old don't worry.
    I know she has not moved away because I saw her this afternoon :rolleyes:
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    A simple smile + eye contact does wonders :yep:

    And don't let her go OP :nah:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I know she has not moved away because I saw her this afternoon :rolleyes:
    Alright the way you put it, it sounds like she left and you couldn't tell her that you felt lonely too. :rolleyes:'

    That's what I gathered from this comment


    What I gathed is that shes moved from the other side of the country and is really feeling it. I rarely see her with other people. (1/2 the time shes not even in so..)
 
 
 
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