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    Ok ok, theres a Russian girl at uni who looks like a model, perfect figure beautiful etc and makes pretty much every other girl I know(and ones I dont) look plain in comparison

    Anyway we got talking and shes really sweet on me as shes a tiny bit insecure and because most men treat her like an object because of her looks and we are getting close.

    What is intimitdating me is I am 4 stone overweight and a plain guy but she seems to really like me for me.

    I really like her but "dont feel good enough for her"

    But seriously I have to say it again how gorgeous this girl is!
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    "she seems to really like me for me"

    What gives you this impression exactly?

    And secondly, are you actually asking a question, or just stating something? (sincere question)
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    maybe she sees a good friend in you, if you don't have confidence in yourself then she sure as heck won't see it, it's a bit annoying when guys don't understand girls can have male friends, what's wrong with being a good friend to her until you gain some confidence at least...
    i say back off and don't blow a potential friendship at least and you may act differently but you still obviously think the same as all those other guys which is a bit insulting to her if she thought you were different.
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    "she seems to really like me for me"

    What gives you this impression exactly?

    And secondly, are you actually asking a question, or just stating something? (sincere question)
    Well I dont know an exact question but just wanted general advice on what people think on the situation.

    Well she told me she likes me and I am the sweetest guy I know, has said she wants to see me again and in a conversation we had I said I thought I wasnt the best looking sort of guy and she told me theres nothing wrong with me, I have a nice smile and am really sweet etc.
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    Make hay whilst the sun shines dear boy
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Well I dont know an exact question but just wanted general advice on what people think on the situation.

    Well she told me she likes me and I am the sweetest guy I know, has said she wants to see me again and in a conversation we had I said I thought I wasnt the best looking sort of guy and she told me theres nothing wrong with me, I have a nice smile and am really sweet etc.
    Um. I presume she said that.
    In either case, only advice i can give you is that which has already been said:
    be sure of if it's "like" or "like like" before making any rash move. Nothing wrong with being friends first =P
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    Um. I presume she said that.
    In either case, only advice i can give you is that which has already been said:
    be sure of if it's "like" or "like like" before making any rash move. Nothing wrong with being friends first =P
    Well, she does stuff like blush and push her hair back and stare at me and a lot of giggling etc.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Well, she does stuff like blush and push her hair back and stare at me and a lot of giggling etc.
    If you haven't made her face look like an iced bun within the week then give up being a man
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    well they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. SO while you might be seeing a beautiful russian model... other people might be seeing something quite different.
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    You asked her out yet? Otherwise you're probably just the fat friend.
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    4 stone overweight?! Having said that bmi can be rather f*cked up on the whole under/overweight thing. I would highly recommend against using her low self-esteem, that is just unconscionable. I think more expansion of 'getting close' is needed for advice
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ok ok, theres a Russian girl at uni who looks like a model, perfect figure beautiful etc and makes pretty much every other girl I know(and ones I dont) look plain in comparison

    Anyway we got talking and shes really sweet on me as shes a tiny bit insecure and because most men treat her like an object because of her looks and we are getting close.

    What is intimitdating me is I am 4 stone overweight and a plain guy but she seems to really like me for me.

    I really like her but "dont feel good enough for her"

    But seriously I have to say it again how gorgeous this girl is!
    This should be motivation for you to hit the treadmill hard and start looking like jazzy jazz hands.
 
 
 
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