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    My life is so damn bad right now... i got everyone on my case every time.. i am currently studying for my final exams and i am heading for university. My dad keeps telling me am i gonna get into uni or wha..? and just pressurises me saying if i don't get in ill be a kitchen worker and unnessary stuff like that. Then there is my mum who has become major bothersome she knows i ain't got a lot of time on my hands but she keeps telling me to go do the shopping, go to this place and go to that place... it really drives me crazy! My sister is in college and my mum hardly asks her to do nothing shes got no exams hardly coming up and shes in a period to chill out.. but she doesn't get bothered one bit... I hate it when everyone gets on my case i just want to put my head down and finish my final exams and then I will do anything they want.. its simple as that...
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    Grow some balls brat. No way you're going to cope at uni anyway if you can't handle such basical and trivial social things. Jesus Christ.
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    I don't mean to insult your dad, but anyone who believes you cannot do great without a degree is simply.. an idiot.
    For example, just today i found out my older cousins fiancée is moving from his job of originally selling bikes etc in Fowlers, to a BMW garage and is going to be earning 35k a year before commission, he is like 26, i don't think that is bad at all.
    So, i would try to discuss with your dad ideas like this, university is not the only choice by any means.

    To your mum, how she seems to ask you to do things not your sister, has she always done this? Maybe.. because of the fact you continue to do it and have always done it then she just thinks you dont mind and just get on with it, have you ever confronted her about it?
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    Tell her you got to do work and you can't be asked to listen to her and just get on with work.
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    Why not sit down with someone such as your tutors and talk about these problems as they know you best and can help.
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    (Original post by Highbury)
    Grow some balls brat. No way you're going to cope at uni anyway if you can't handle such basical and trivial social things. Jesus Christ.
    great argument
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    (Original post by Tommyjw)
    I don't mean to insult your dad, but anyone who believes you cannot do great without a degree is simply.. an idiot.
    For example, just today i found out my older cousins fiancée is moving from his job of originally selling bikes etc in Fowlers, to a BMW garage and is going to be earning 35k a year before commission, he is like 26, i don't think that is bad at all.
    So, i would try to discuss with your dad ideas like this, university is not the only choice by any means.

    To your mum, how she seems to ask you to do things not your sister, has she always done this? Maybe.. because of the fact you continue to do it and have always done it then she just thinks you dont mind and just get on with it, have you ever confronted her about it?
    True say anyway im just going to knuckle down.... and tell my mum straight up i got work to do and that is the main priority... i'm just going to try my best and yeah my dad is a bit of a over reacted person.. but thanks anyway
 
 
 
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