Im 17 and theres a guy i know that 'likes' me, he's 18. We are both virgins and are inexperienced. He's quite horny in the way he says he always wants sex and blowjobs and sometimes i feel like i just want to have sex all the time. i hope thats normal.
I quite like him, but im not sure how to tell him that cos hes quite shy and couldnt tell me he liked me to my face, he did it through text. the only thing is that when we are together in person, sometimes its awkward as we dont know what to say to each other. is that normal? how can we get over this?
sometimes i get this weird feeling and wants us both to go cinema and i give him a bj whilst watching the film, but i dont know how he'd respond to it? would he make me get off him? because its not like we are together. I think im just abit curious to all the sexual stuff because ive not experienced it before and want to.
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- Thread Starter
- 03-04-2011 20:51
- 03-04-2011 22:10
I assure you that a BJ in the cinema is a bad diea.
1:I have worked ina cinema and my eyes would be tuend to the darkness, so i will see you
2: I caught a girl giving a blowie to her BF in the disabled toilets and she came out all flustered.
3: The cinema for your frist ever forray into **** territory?...Just, no.
Bedroom, warm atmosphere >any car/cinema expedition.
- 04-04-2011 01:30
Of course an 18yo male virgin wants sex and blowjobs, since the first pube sprouted above his teenage **** he's probably thought of nothing else. And of course you want to try it too, even though you're female, your still human, alive, and ruled by hormones. If he is always waffling on about sex now, when he finally gets some he might not be able to keep it between you two, which could put you in an embarrassing position. You might want to choose someone a little more mature for your first step into the world of sex, maybe they will make it a bit more special than a back-row BJ, showing you some tenderness and consideration for your inexperience, whereas an adolescent young lad will try to be a porn star before shooting his wad after 10 seconds of discomfort, then immediately brag about it on Facebook and send all his mates pictures over MMS.
- 04-04-2011 15:10
Worry about getting into a relationship, then worry about sexual things. If you're both shy/awkward with each other, that needs to be overcome first.
- 04-04-2011 17:49
If you want to have sex then ahve sex, if you want to give him a blow job give him one, dont want to be in a relationship then dont be in one.
However some people have very strange attachments to thier virginity, if your one of them do in a time and place you wont regret. Either way dont do it in a cinema, its awkward, you could fall offf the seats oh and its illegal
- 05-04-2011 10:57
Asking a guy for sex is probably one of the easiEst things in the world to do lol. They're horny beasts and will say yes. So just go for it
- 14-04-2011 19:23
its okay to say no
- 14-04-2011 22:32
If you think that something could become of this relationship then go from it... don't listen to us lot, because at the end of the day, its you that goes through with it. Follow your heart every-time! Your both new to 'sex' so talk to each other. Get to know him, and you never know you might have a lot of things in common!
Take it slow, just go for dinner, talk and make sure you like him! Dont be scared to say no! the cinema is definitely out of the question! Its too risky and pretty weird!