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Cheated on my boyfriend off two years with his best friend and feel awful :/ watch

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    Okaaay, first off i dont want comments like "slaaaag" or "sluuuut", i have came to this site only for some constructive advice that is all, i know what i have done is awful and i dont need people over the internet to give me abuse so please don't.....
    To keep the story short, me and my friends decided to go out clubbing on Friday, just wanted to have a good time, let our hair down... My boyfriend works night shifts on a Friday so was unable to come, (he usually does come).... We started drinking as soon as the girls came over to mine so by the time we were actually at the club i had had quite a few :/. My boyfriend's best friend is always out and i wasn't shocked that i bumped into him, i started drinking much more as soon as i got there. He had a lot to drink aswell. My friends were all dancing having a good time, i was just standing at the side (i was so drunk at this point) and all i remember is him coming up to me and making a move, he kissed me and touched my private parts (THAT IS ALL I HONESTLY REMEMBER)... I can't remember any more of the night at all, i just feel so sick since then. He has phoned me constantly since yesterday saying please dont tell Andrew (my boyfriend) but i don't know what to do... Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 2 years, we have never had any trust issues whatsoever, i just cant believe what i have done. Any advice would be appreciated?
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    Duplicate?
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    Yeah, we got the picture the first time you posted.
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    You may not want to hear it, but you deserve to hear it.

    What you did is abhorrent. Filthy ****. You knew what you were doing.
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    'slaaaaag'
    'sluuuuut'

    Not to piss you off or anything, but you can't really argue with it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 2 years, we have never had any trust issues whatsoever
    Well, that's all gonna change.

    I bet your boyfriend is embarressed to the bone as well around his best friend, poor guy.
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    I hope Andrew isn't a bodybuilder with a short temper.
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    "Cheated on my boyfriend off two years with his best friend and feel awful :/

    ...and so you SHOULD.
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    Get off of this forum and do whatever you can to put things right you inconsiderate cow.
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    threesome?
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    Tell him.

    If he has no self-respect, he'll not dump you.

    If I was in your situation, I'd tell them and then leave them. I wouldn't expect them to keep me, the trust is gone. No matter the situation (other than rape).

    But thats me. I know how I'd feel if it was done to me (because it has been).
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    Oh you a bad *****
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    Yeah, be honest with him. Your boyfriend sounds much more like he deserves your honesty, loyalty and trust than his best friend, imo.
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    "I didn't come hear to get called a ****"

    **** off. I'll make the decision whether to call you a **** or not.



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