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I don't know if I'm bisexual or not!? watch

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    Don't worry about it. These things aren't cut and dry... Sexuality is fluid.. People just don't fit into three labels...

    Example... One of my friends. Certain that she was straight. Never even fantasied about a girl. Long story short, she's now in a committed relationship with a girl... That girl also thought she was straight. But yeah, they fell in love, been together for nearly 2 years and are buying a house together.
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    (Original post by i.am.lost)
    Gay men don't get turned on by their own penises, neither do lesbians by their own boobs. :rolleyes:
    Jeez it was just a joke. But okay.
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    Only being attracted makes you bi-curious. You have done nothing to confirm your sexuality as bi-sexual
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    There's only one way to find out!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm a girl (I'm 18) and I'm kind of confused... I've always dated boys, and never really thought about girls sexually before now. But just recently, I've sort of been getting turned on at the thought of kissing one of my female friends. I asked another of my friends what she thought, and she looked at me as if I was crazy and said, "Then you're obviously a lesbian!" But the way I feel about this girl is different to the way I feel about the guys I've dated - more intense, and not quite the same. I want to 'be intimate' (lol, but I can't phrase it another way) with this girl so badly, but something's stopping me. The girl I like is openly gay, and has told me she likes me several times now. But why does this feel so different to the sexual attraction I've felt in the past? And does only being attracted to one girl make me bisexual??:confused:
    As people have said, sexuality is fluid. You can be gay, straight, bi, pan, straight plus one girl, whatever. If you're single, and you both feel it, then there's no reason you shouldn't go for it. Just let her know that you're a little unsure, so she doesn't move too fast with you, and see how it goes.
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    (Original post by antoastew)
    Can you hear that? Thats the round of applause from every male user on TSR congratulating this thread.
    Thats not applause, thats the sound of skin slapping off skin
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    Yh that's how I feel but I'm a boy :s and I can't go to my mates coz I don't want anyone to know but I like girls and boys :s
 
 
 
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