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    (Original post by princess271)
    its not that
    it's just that some girls are shy
    including me
    we shouldnt have to start the convos thats your job
    lol
    if you want a girl to like you give her compliments and make her laugh
    dont get cocky..!
    girls hate that
    Is this some modern form of poetry?
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    (Original post by ForKicks)
    Is this some modern form of poetry?
    lol
    what do u mean?
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    (Original post by Racheld25)
    ^ This

    Girls have this issue too. Me, for instance. I'm told i'm pretty, but there aren't enough good looking single guys. Failing that, I just look younger than I am. So I guess that tends to put men off.
    actually psychological studies have said that men prefer girls who look younger cause theres theoretically less of a chance that they've had children with another man/had sex loads lol... comes from cavemen times apparantly
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    (Original post by princess271)
    lol
    what do u mean?
    The structure of your writing is rather...different. Surely you see that? lol
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    (Original post by twist.the.illusion)
    ewwwwwwwwwwwww, that's gross! Boys are like, SO disgusting! :gigg:
    Disgusting? Suit yourself, I won't be asking you out to dinner then.
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    (Original post by ForKicks)
    The structure of your writing is rather...different. Surely you see that? lol
    seriously i dont understand what your saying
    an i'm only 17
    ur probably 25 or something lol
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    Is it not obvious? Because you don't have any opportunities to 'get girls' - you barely socialise and supposedly have no friends. You have to meet girls to get girls you know.
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    (Original post by leahrascal)
    actually psychological studies have said that men prefer girls who look younger cause theres theoretically less of a chance that they've had children with another man/had sex loads lol... comes from cavemen times apparantly
    Should have put the word 'generally' in there really.
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    i did put the word apparantly in there though
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    Pics or gtfo!

    If you're told you're attractive then its your **** personality. End of.

    PS Your Mummy doesn't count as a person telling you you're attractive!
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    (Original post by princess271)
    seriously i dont understand what your saying
    an i'm only 17
    ur probably 25 or something lol
    No worries
    then.
    I guess that when
    you are older
    you will change sentence
    format.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i've been told many times before that im very good looking, i do get a lot of attention from girls just eye contact however i get no girls. im interested in getting to know girls and having casual sex. What is my problem i see so many guys at uni with different girls everyday, and i wouldn't say they're physically attractive. My personality is good im funny but it only ever comes out once i get comfortable with someone i.e. after speaking for at least 3/5 mins.
    ive been at my uni for 3 years but i haven't made any friends.

    also my daily routine is basically as follows. wake up, eat, internet, then go gym for 1 hour then leave come home. i only go into uni twice a week as i have no other lectures on all other days so i dont bother going in.

    do you think my problem of not getting girls is related to my lifestyle? I think I should be at uni more often but being this late in the year and being a 3rd year i dont know where to go to pick up girls. where on campus do you got to pick up girls and how do you approach them? and what do you say?

    i'd prefer female replys but guys can too.
    thanks
    I think its the lifestyle. I have exactly the same routine as you and the same problem. Don't really have any friends, but i have npd (narcissistic personality disorder) so thats contributory. I get a lot of interest from girls i'm not interested in though, but i think i'd need to flirt to pull the more attractive girls.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i think im very shy but how do you change that or improve on it?
    http://cdn.thegloss.com/files/2010/0...on-306x460.jpg
    Watch The Situation.
    Learn what The Situation does.
    Mimic his every move and you'll be drowning in women.
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    You either need to put yourself in situations where you can naturally talk to girls without them thinking you're 'chatting them up', so for example clubs, societies, house parties or start going up to girls in clubs/bars that you're interested in and try doing it that way. I'd stop worrying about 'getting girls' to be honest, if you just make sure you're having fun in your own life then you will eventually meet people any way.
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    I just read ur 1st post and I felt that im reading my own life story. Me and u are exactly the same including the gym routine but how the hell do u have NO FRIENDS. Thats insane. I make friends easily, i also believe im decent lukn, and plus very toned, and can hold eye contact with a girl easily 2. But iv neva had a girlfriend because im very unsociable. Also im very picky wen choosing women. My advise 2 u and 2 me is that, be sociable, thats how all my mates pull all their women not cause they r great lukn but cause they go clubs alot. I dnt like clubs cause i dnt like drinking and smoking..
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    British girls like ugly guys as they are a safe bet.
    Best bet is to move country.
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    (Original post by Jimbo1234)
    British girls like ugly guys as they are a safe bet.
    Best bet is to move country.
    what utter rubbish.
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    (Original post by sil3nt_cha0s)
    what utter rubbish.
    Not at all.
    Look at the amount of British girls that are in bad shape and look at the type of guy they go for. Because of this they know they could not score with a hot guy or it would be hard and they are to insecure to deal with rejection so they go for a less attractive guy. I do not know any girl who would try to hit on the hottest guy in the room, but I know many girls who would hit on the second hottest or ugliest guy in the room.
    Even if the girl is hot herself, she will go for an uglier guy as it is a 'sure thing' and she can guarantee that she has the upper hand in the relationship because the guy will be so grateful to be going out with someone hot that they will tolerate a lot of **** from them.
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    (Original post by MR-Sanshou)
    thanks man, i think your right about needing the liveliness from the get go but i dont think i can its not my personality type. do you think i can change that about myself?
    Only with drugs, such as alcohol. If I drink I become a lot more forward and chatty, and occasionally get girls. I suspect MANY more people would be in your situation if they didn't drink - but of course everyone drinks.

    I believe these broad behavioural types are pretty much set in stone, people like that have always been like that. I've always been quiet and reserved, my whole life.

    What you need to do instead (apart from altering your personality with drugs, which is fine) is to put yourself in situations that you can work with, such as like I suggested trying to meet girls in places where you are "forced together" for work purposes or other reasons.
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    The only advice you need is to make the first move and do not be afraid of rejection. Because at least then you have put yourself out there and shown a few girls that you are interested, I can assure you if you are even remotely good looking then you will pull. Oh yeah and don't forget to smile when you first approach! and if you do get turned down, do not take it as a critism just smile, forget about it and try with someone else.

    Honestly this advice really works, just have a bit of confidence & suck up any knock downs. Good luck bro!
 
 
 
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