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    Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for a year and I've never been able to orgasm through sex or oral, so I bought a vibrator and used it for the first time the other day. After about a minute of using it my legs went numb and my vagina started contracting, this lasted for about 4 seconds. Although it felt good, it didn't feel AMAZING, I did try and continue afterwards but the 'feeling' was gone. just wondering, is there more to it?

    Anon or delete please.
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    ....Doing it wrong.
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    (Original post by *Dreaming*)
    ....Doing it wrong.

    Agreed (even as a man). Remember: -

    Sex happens between the ears, not between the legs.
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    Excuse the pun, but I think your first few are usually a bit of an "anti-climax".. you can have amazing ones, and you'll build up a stamina for making them last longer as well .. with er.. practice LOL
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    Sounds like an orgasm to me.

    In my experience, it feels different every time, sometimes it feels kinda non descript but other times it is fantastic, so don't worry that it doesn't get any better than that because it really really will, especially with much practice. I always find that the ones that come quick (so to speak) like yours after a minute, always seem worse than ones during sex or after a longer time
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    Maybe you're a special case? I thought orgasms were supposed to feel like how this looks:

    http://i589.photobucket.com/albums/s...mfireworks.jpg
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    Are you sure you orgasmed?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for a year and I've never been able to orgasm through sex or oral, so I bought a vibrator and used it for the first time the other day. After about a minute of using it my legs went numb and my vagina started contracting, this lasted for about 4 seconds. Although it felt good, it didn't feel AMAZING, I did try and continue afterwards but the 'feeling' was gone. just wondering, is there more to it?

    Anon or delete please.
    Different orgasms feel different. Sometimes you can be like "whoa that was epic" and others, you're like "this is...pleasant, that's all."
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    (Original post by HaNzY)
    Sounds like an orgasm to me.

    In my experience, it feels different every time, sometimes it feels kinda non descript but other times it is fantastic, so don't worry that it doesn't get any better than that because it really really will, especially with much practice. I always find that the ones that come quick (so to speak) like yours after a minute, always seem worse than ones during sex or after a longer time
    This.
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    *has a hard on*
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    (Original post by HighestKungFu)
    Sex happens between the ears, not between the legs.
    You're doing it wrong.
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    (Original post by Bobifier)
    You're doing it wrong.
    Lol not LITERALLY haha, but the mind is so important when it comes to sex, that's the point.
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    You'll have been worrying and uncomfortable, therefore **** orgasm. Just the same as how the first time you have sex with someone it's usually crap. It's impossible to avoid this worry if you decided to do it consciously, but one day you'll segue into it when relaxed and the juices will flow.
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    What a virgin.
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    it'll get better keep practicing
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    Some girls can't orgasm, or it takes a while until you can. Just keep experimenting until you find something that feels good I guess. Don't give up on the first try! Normally you can tell whether or not you have orgasmed though.
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    Relax more, take your time, do what feels good; not what you think works, experiment. You'll get used to what you like and how to make it better the more you do it. Have fun!
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    It'll get better, trust me, like others have said just practise! I've had ones that weren't great like yours and them some that are really good.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for a year and I've never been able to orgasm through sex or oral, so I bought a vibrator and used it for the first time the other day. After about a minute of using it my legs went numb and my vagina started contracting, this lasted for about 4 seconds. Although it felt good, it didn't feel AMAZING, I did try and continue afterwards but the 'feeling' was gone. just wondering, is there more to it?

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    Yeah, sorry. Sex isn't that great after all, then you die.
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    Need a hand? :sexface:
 
 
 
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