You've missed the point. I'm saying that someone who has caual sex can still 'make love' and feel the same emotionally about it as someone who hasn't,(Original post by Young Spade)
Casual sex and love are two different things, yes, but someone who is just used to having casual sex... mentally they are in a different state than someone who views sex as something more; something important or intimate.
speaking as someone who's experience many ONS's and casual relationships in the past, and am now in a long term serious relationship with someone who I lve, the feeling doesn't compare. Past sexual experiences are forgotten, and may as well have not occurred.
They're two completely seperate things. Like, the difference between driving a 1991 corsa for most of your life, and then swapping it for a lamborghini, compared to someone who's only ever had a lamborghini. The person who's experienced the inferior at the start, appreciates the new model much mor than the person who's only ever known the new model.
Clumsy metaphor but you get my drift ;D
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should your partners past matter watch
- 05-04-2011 17:54
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- 05-04-2011 18:03
only if he has AIDS or something.
- 05-04-2011 18:09
"So many I've lost count, but around 65".. ahaha
Judge your partner by the sum of his actions in your experience, be not led by fear or prejudice my child. Amen.