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    Not a troll - I made a new account just to post this thread as I don't want to accidently 'de-anon' myself

    Last December, my friend invited me round for a girly night. She's a lesbian but it had never affected our friendship.

    We were talking about our sex lives when she asked "Have you ever done anything with a girl?" I said that I hadn't but had considered it.

    A couple of hours later, she asked me if I wanted to know what it's like to kiss a girl. We shared a few kisses and it was amazing, but it didn't just stop at a kiss...

    We ended up getting naked and 'exploring' each other's bodies. We fingered each other, had oral sex and did other things that I'm too embarrassed to mention

    I really enjoyed it but now I have a problem. She's told a few people what we did and now she's claiming that I'm a lesbian.

    The truth is, I'm bisexual but prefer men. She won't believe this. She asked me how I could ever be intimate with a man again after what happened and, when I replied that I prefer sex with men, she slapped me and told me that she never wanted to speak to me again.

    I know I've hurt her but she's hurt me too! I don't know what to do Any advice?
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    I wish you weren't a troll because my **** just exploded.
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    (Original post by AnonymousGirl2011)
    Not a troll - I made a new account just to post this thread as I don't want to accidently 'de-anon' myself

    Last December, my friend invited me round for a girly night. She's a lesbian but it had never affected our friendship.

    We were talking about our sex lives when she asked "Have you ever done anything with a girl?" I said that I hadn't but had considered it.

    A couple of hours later, she asked me if I wanted to know what it's like to kiss a girl. We shared a few kisses and it was amazing, but it didn't just stop at a kiss...

    We ended up getting naked and 'exploring' each other's bodies. We fingered each other, had oral sex and did other things that I'm too embarrassed to mention

    I really enjoyed it but now I have a problem. She's told a few people what we did and now she's claiming that I'm a lesbian.

    The truth is, I'm bisexual but prefer men. She won't believe this. She asked me how I could ever be intimate with a man again after what happened and, when I replied that I prefer sex with men, she slapped me and told me that she never wanted to speak to me again.

    I know I've hurt her but she's hurt me too! I don't know what to do Any advice?
    That was stupid to say, but so was your response.

    You should have thought this through! :banana:
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    pics or gtfo.
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    That sounded like the opening scene of every lesbian porno ever made.
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    I think you should record it and upload so we could asses the issue in more detail.
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    In bed afterwards....

    Lesbian: How was it for you?
    OP: Not bad, but I prefer men

    Conclusion....OP is a LAD!!!
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    Well you've pretty much f***** up your friendship.....
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    I don't like how people are so quick to assume every tiny thing is troll-possessed. Unlike the majority of TSR, some people have a sex life and would like help as to what to do about it.

    Anyway, OP, if you prefer sex with men, that's fine and perfectly acceptable. You cannot help what or who you prefer or what you do or do not like. I don't think you led her on, you said you were willing to experiment which is what you did do.

    Talk to her about you not being a lesbian, as you quite clearly said you prefer sex with men. Tell her you enjoyed what you did, and thank her for the opportunity, but it's not for you. One same-sex experience doesn't make you gay.
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    (Original post by kat2pult)
    I don't like how people are so quick to assume every tiny thing is troll-possessed. Unlike the majority of TSR, some people have a sex life and would like help as to what to do about it.
    It really sounds like a troll though. And ironically, sounds like the OP is not one of those people who has a sex life.
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    Mmmmmm :sexface:

    Only had to type in the word 'lesbian' to get this beauty for the [email protected] bank...
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    I heard "lesbians" and came a-runnin' :sexface:

    There could be loads of theories as to why she's acting the way she is:
    1) She has feelings for you and thought that the night the two of you had together was special, but now feels rejected and hurt after you told her that sex with guys is better.

    2) She thinks that she's always right, won't let anyone else get a say in otherwise, and slaps people when they don't agree with her.

    3) She's pissed off with you for telling people that you're not a lesbian just after she's told everyone that you are (ie; you made a fool out of her, in a way. Not that it's actually your fault in the first place given that she must've known that one experimentation session doesn't automatically define someone's sexuality, so it's a bit of a logic fail on her behalf there).

    Personally, I'd be really pissed off that she's gone around telling people. She sounds like an attention seeker who reacts badly when she doesn't get her own way. IMO, you're better off without someone like that.
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    (Original post by Drunk Punx)
    I heard "lesbians" and came a-runnin' :sexface:

    There could be loads of theories as to why she's acting the way she is:
    1) She has feelings for you and thought that the night the two of you had together was special, but now feels rejected and hurt after you told her that sex with guys is better.

    2) She thinks that she's always right, won't let anyone else get a say in otherwise, and slaps people when they don't agree with her.

    3) She's pissed off with you for telling people that you're not a lesbian just after she's told everyone that you are (ie; you made a fool out of her, in a way. Not that it's actually your fault in the first place given that she must've known that one experimentation session doesn't automatically define someone's sexuality, so it's a bit of a logic fail on her behalf there).

    Personally, I'd be really pissed off that she's gone around telling people. She sounds like an attention seeker who reacts badly when she doesn't get her own way. IMO, you're better off without someone like that.
    I was gonna say "LAD" when I read the first line, but then you actually gave useful advice ha :eek:
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    She started telling people -> just ignore her for a moment and say you prefer guys (btw I'd love to have a gf like you, still prefer guys but be into threesomes (the good kind ))
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    I can only assume the "other things" were to do with strap ons and stuff... No? Oh well a guy can dream, can't he?
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    just move on. stick to men. if one girl (one that you thought was colse and could understand you) does, ahem, THAT with you and then turns, you gotta turn your back on her too. Nothing More.
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    (Original post by Harry.C)
    I wish you weren't a troll because my **** just exploded.
    I'd like to see that :sexface:
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    I saw something like this in a porno once...
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    Well she's a *****, you were only telling the truth. She wants you baddddddddddddddddddddddddd.
 
 
 
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