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HELP my gf wants me to be her personal dom watch

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    hey. I'm 16 and i've been seeing my current gf for about a year now and we have what i would say is a very healthy sex life(i'm a girl by the way). My gf recentky shared that she has a fantasy about being dominated in the full on leather whips etc kinda way. Thing is I want to please her but I'm kinda shy, I don'y know where to begin and i'm scared this is a step too far in my relationship. Anybody got any advice? Thanks
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    speak to her...maybe you can reach a compimise
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    Experimenting is fun, you may enjoy it, but if you dont feel comfortable, say thanks but no thanks, she will or should appreciate your honesty, let us know what you decide x


    (Original post by Anonymous)
    hey. I'm 16 and i've been seeing my current gf for about a year now and we have what i would say is a very healthy sex life(i'm a girl by the way). My gf recentky shared that she has a fantasy about being dominated in the full on leather whips etc kinda way. Thing is I want to please her but I'm kinda shy, I don'y know where to begin and i'm scared this is a step too far in my relationship. Anybody got any advice? Thanks
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    Only do it if you're 100% comforable. My boyfriend and I have dominance and submissive fantasies. We didn't jump straight into it, we've worked our way up. Take steps, maybe just go for a collar and gloves first. You say you're shy, maybe you should work on this together in the bedroom, build confidence before you adorn the full leather atire and whip her ass sore.
    If you want to do it, this is in my opinion the best way to do it, ease into it so you feel more comfortable. Make it clear to your gf about this so she doesn't try to force it.
    If you don't want to do it, tell her, talking and compromise help a relationship.

    A step to far, depends entirely on you and her. Talk about it.

    If you don't know what to do, I know this may seem a bit vulger but there is a lot of porn or erotic literature and other resources on the internet which are likely to give you ideas.

    Hope that helps You can message me if you'd rather talk privately about this or anything.
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    It sounds like she's more dominant than you. She'd probably be more comfortable with a leather whip.

    You can't do what's not in you.
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    (Original post by Nepene)
    It sounds like she's more dominant than you. She'd probably be more comfortable with a leather whip.

    You can't do what's not in you.
    Where did you get that from?
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    She wants to please her girlfriend, her girlfriend is being forward with her fantasies, she's shy, she's scared. Not characteristics of someone who's a good whip wielder.
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    (Original post by Nepene)
    She wants to please her girlfriend, her girlfriend is being forward with her fantasies, she's shy, she's scared. Not characteristics of someone who's a good whip wielder.
    Being forward about your fantasies doesn't mean you're dominant. :lolwut:

    Especially when those fantasies are about submitting to someone.
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    Being forward (even about submission) is more dominant than being scared and shy.

    Only the original poster can answer this. If she really doesn't have an dom in her, she should recognise that.
 
 
 
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