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    (Original post by Broderss)
    I was trying to get you to say no we wouldn't need to use a condom then I'd say 'WIN :borat:'.
    Hahaha ok! That I can take. No you wouldn't need to use a condom, dear.


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    Let's just say, for the record, that people using prostitutes are NOT disgusting. So to the poster who stated that and then asked why they'd been negged, you have your answer.

    This thread just shows how women don't have much of a clue on this subject.

    And no, I've never paid for sex....not directly anyway!
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    (Original post by Broderss)
    Does that mean I'd need a condom with you or not?
    Bareback you pussy.
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    Just shag a ****.

    They're free
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    (Original post by aeterno)
    Just shag a ****.

    They're free
    I love ****s. Are you a ****?
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    (Original post by mirin?)
    I love ****s. Are you a ****?
    No. And even if I were, I wouldn't go near you
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    (Original post by predius)
    My friend, I introduce you: Game!

    Browse through that blog, look at others like that. If you need a prostitute to get some confidence, then do so, but you'll never get any (or any confidence) until you trust in yourself and that you have something to offer.
    Haha if any of that stuff from the blog works then I must be a very atypical woman I read through it a bit and many of them would be a turn off for me, others a complete deal breaker o.O particularly the one about denying your girlfriend sex to keep her wanting you... i have in the past been on the recieving end of that one and it just made me feel rejected and hurt and gave me doubts about the relationship - it most certainly didn't make me want sex more.
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    (Original post by aeterno)
    No. And even if I were, I wouldn't go near you
    oooohhhhhh. Your seductive skills need work dear. But don't worry, i'd still tap that.
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    not for your first time
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    I think something that hasn't really been addressed here is the fact that there is more than just STD's to consider. Whilst sleeping with a prostitute may make you gain confidence in some respect, it may not help you with women, especially if it is intimacy you are shy with. I do not speak for all women at all, but I know that a lot of women I know wouldn't consider sleeping with a guy who has slept with a prostitute. Whereas you may find it morally fine to pay for sex, many do not and it may hinder your chances of getting a girlfriend in the long run- especially if you can't exactly win them over in the first place
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    (Original post by tibbles209)
    Haha if any of that stuff from the blog works then I must be a very atypical woman I read through it a bit and many of them would be a turn off for me, others a complete deal breaker o.O particularly the one about denying your girlfriend sex to keep her wanting you... i have in the past been on the recieving end of that one and it just made me feel rejected and hurt and gave me doubts about the relationship - it most certainly didn't make me want sex more.
    Did you try to make it up with him?

    EDIT: Sorry, I think you didn't get the gist of the idea. Women are attracted to men they look up to, not down. There is certain behaviour that works to help on that. Being confident, for example, is one. Women are not generally attracted to a man who is very shy and has no belief in himself, right? There is other, more specific actions which may nudge a girl to feel this way or that way.

    Attraction isn't merely about looks, clearly, especially for women. The way you behave and act towards and around women definitely changes the way a girl will look upon them. Some actions (like the sex thing) can be a bit extreme, and not work always, sometimes being specific to the state of a relationship. However, the more general you get the more clearly it becomes at least plausibly true advice.

    Who would you prefer (all else equal): A man who grovels behind you and worries about the relationship and himself and is always trying to be nice or a guy with independence, something to appreciate and who's sure of himself and of the fact that he is a catch? What about "nice guys finish last"?
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    (Original post by predius)
    Did you try to make it up with him?

    EDIT: Sorry, I think you didn't get the gist of the idea. Women are attracted to men they look up to, not down. There is certain behaviour that works to help on that. Being confident, for example, is one. Women are not generally attracted to a man who is very shy and has no belief in himself, right? There is other, more specific actions which may nudge a girl to feel this way or that way.

    Attraction isn't merely about looks, clearly, especially for women. The way you behave and act towards and around women definitely changes the way a girl will look upon them. Some actions (like the sex thing) can be a bit extreme, and not work always, sometimes being specific to the state of a relationship. However, the more general you get the more clearly it becomes at least plausibly true advice.

    Who would you prefer (all else equal): A man who grovels behind you and worries about the relationship and himself and is always trying to be nice or a guy with independence, something to appreciate and who's sure of himself and of the fact that he is a catch? What about "nice guys finish last"?
    I didn't try and make it up with him no, but I think he realised that I was hurt and has made much more of an effort since and I'm much happier now had i been consistently rejected by him then I probably would have just stopped coming onto him for fear of rejection.

    I've never been the type to go for the cocky arrogant guys, my long term boyfriend is pretty quiet and laid back and tries very hard to please me and i absolutely love that about him I look up to him because he is so kind and thoughtful and selfless and loyal and thats the kind of person I want to be. If he was arrogant and selfish and controlling (as seems to be the description on that blog of 'alphas') I don't think I would have as much respect for him. Perhaps I'm just the exception to the rule, but i spent quite a lot of time last night reading that blog out of curiosity and came to the conclusion that I am very much more into beta guys than alphas
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So, I'm strongly considering going to a prostitute as I'm too shy to meet, chat to and then penetrate a woman without having some kind of head-start.

    I'm hurtling towards 30 and things are unacceptable.Hopefully doing so will give me a confidence boost and propel me towards success with women IRL.


    The main worry is getting herpes.it sounds a pretty badass disease and easy to transfer.

    So: has anyone else hear used a prostitute, was it successful, should I book for more than 1/2 an hour and what is a cast-iron way of avoiding herpes?


    Also I can spend £100 max.

    Ok well most people on here are just nagging away like little kids.

    But erm it depends to be honest, if your lucky you won't get it. This is such a bad stereotype that all prostitutes have herpes! Many of the people on this thread saying that have probably never even had sex!

    But in my experience i have done this twice (didn't lose my virginity to a prostitute though) and both times were fine, and less than £100!

    Majority of the prostitutes have regular checks.

    Also regarding your confidence, i doubt having to pay for pleasure will give you the same satisfaction and confidence which you may get by meeting a girl, then chatting and then finally penetrating.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thanks for the advice.
    Where would I find an upmarket one? On the same sites as the lower class ones, but just more expensive?
    No, they would probably be on a more expensive/higher class website
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    (Original post by HistoryRepeating)
    Google "London Escorts" (even if not in London) - you can even find review sites and browse the comments for a really friendly one.

    Basically look for an escort in the £250 - £350 an hour bracket.

    Use a decent condom.

    Tell her its your first time. She will be touched and make extra effort.

    You can spot herpes visually. Look for anything that looks like a coldsore on her mouth or lower regions. If you cant see herpes, you probably cant catch it either (only contagious during outbreaks). She might have used concealer though so be cautious.

    Edit: never used one nor see the need too personally (confident bordering on arrogant), but have no problems with it and had fun researching the review sites :P
    Agree with all the advice except about herpes.

    You can't always spot herpes. Somebody may carry the herpes virus but show no symptoms. Some people may even carry herpes but never get any outbreaks.

    OP, there is always a risk of STDs when you have sex, you just need to minimize the risks and take as many precautions as you can.
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    lol an escort girl? they do everything you want but arent cheap
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    LOL i use one
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    why the **** do people on tsr think its acceptable to use/be hookers...

    get some self restraint if your a horny *******, and some ****ing respect for yourself

    if you are seriously that desperate, yes im going to sound like a **** for this, go to the gym and put on as much muscle as possible, that will at least put you average in the looks dept and give you a whole **** ton of confidence

    am i the only person that is baffled by the fact that the student room which presumably attracts more of the academically gifted people, where half of you are tying to be doctors, think its fine to use whores...

    massive facepalm for humanity
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Agree with all the advice except about herpes.

    You can't always spot herpes. Somebody may carry the herpes virus but show no symptoms. Some people may even carry herpes but never get any outbreaks.

    OP, there is always a risk of STDs when you have sex, you just need to minimize the risks and take as many precautions as you can.
    Although herpes is highly contagious, its almost impossible to catch if you use protection and they are not having an outbreak. My advice stands...
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    (Original post by HistoryRepeating)
    You can't catch herpes just from having sex with someone with herpes (even unprotected). They -have- to be having an outbreak. My advice stands...
    Not true: http://www.homehealth-uk.com/medical/genitalherpes.htm

    The virus is highly infectious when sores and blisters are present, the risk of you passing the infection on or catching the infection between episodes is much lower. However, on rare occasions the virus can be passed on when no sores or blisters are present
 
 
 
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