I broke up with my girlfriend about three months ago because she lived on the other side of London from me. I really liked her. She was perfect for me because she was intelligent and also really good looking. However, she was also really inexperienced. After we had been going out for about three weeks she told me that I was the first boyfriend that she had ever had. I have nothing against girls who are inexperienced but it did put a lot of pressure on me as I felt as though I couldn't do much with her because I didn't want to force her into having sex or make her feel as though she had to have sex with me. At the same time I didn't want her to become to attached because I was the first person she had ever opened up to, of the opposite sex. Anyway I fingered her a few times and tried to get her to give me a handjob but she really didn't know what to do so it was really awkward.
So last weekend I was at a party and she was there. I had had a bit to drink and so I started to speak to her, telling her that I'd made the biggest mistake of my life by breaking up with her. I just wanted her to know that I did reaaly enjoy my time with her. This is when I realised that I was still in love with her. She told me that she didn't still have feelings for me but then asked to see me again but I said I couldn't because of all of the work. I think she still likes me and I am still in love with her. What should I do?!?!?!?!
I'm still in love with my ex watch
- Thread Starter
- 06-04-2011 10:40
- 06-04-2011 12:29
You didn't want her to come attached? Sounds like you don't love her as much as you say, especially as you threw in the towel just cause she lives on the other side on London. No one is born knowing what to do sexually, people learn....I wouldn't give you a second chance if you broke up with me for those reasons tbh.
(Original post by Anonymous)
- 06-04-2011 14:29
I This is when I realised that I was still in love with her. She told me that she didn't still have feelings for me but then asked to see me again but I said I couldn't because of all of the work. I think she still likes me and I am still in love with her. What should I do?!?!?!?!
you cant be bothered to work at a relationship with her
as your 'love' is conditional, i'd say you arent truely in love with her. otherwise you wouldnt see teaching her stuff as 'work', would waould WANT to teach her.