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I don't care about friends - I only care about sex and girlfriends watch


    While I don't aspire to have sex with loads of different people as well as having a partner, I am in the position where I don't see my friends socially outside of work/ college so my partner is pretty much my world. Now, going through a rough patch with him kinda feels like my whole world is tumbling down. I guess it's the old saying 'don't put all your eggs in one basket'. I think this dream lifestyle you've thought up is actually not such a good idea in reality; sex is great but casual sex can leave you feeling empty after a while, if a girlfriend goes too what do you have left?

    (Original post by Dr Pressure)
    this might be a bit rich coming from a guy who is a 20 year old male virgin who has never kissed a girl before.

    yes i recognise that having friends is the best way to meet girls who are potential girlfriends or for sex and going to clubs or house parties on your own is strange.

    but i dont care much about having friends. my life would be great if i was having sex, preferably with lots of different attractive girls, and a girlfriend would be good too.

    am i a bit strange for thinking this way? i honestly think i would be very happy (the happiest i could be) if my life was like this.
    It would be happy if you weren't at the mental level of knowing that you didn't ultimately want that lifestyle. I am 19, a freshman in college, and have a beautiful girlfriend. I am still a virgin as well and I have told her that I want to wait a while because I don't feel like I want to do it at this point.

    It doesn't have anything to do with her, I just don't want to do it right now. I used to think about what life would be like if I just went around sleeping with all of the women that offered to sleep with me but ultimately I have found that it isn't something I want.

    In the end, do what makes you happy, however live with the future in mind, how will your actions now impact your life in the future?

    But yea, you should try and go make friends; you don't have to talk or text them all the time but go and hang out once in a while, that is ultimately how you meet new people.
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