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    (Original post by knowme)
    no i mean that i am watching a girl who is shy and i want express muy feeling but i cant coz i got afraid and full with shy when i stood near her what to dd?whats the idea
    Go and talk to her when she's on her own, she won't ignore you if she's shy, she'll be grateful, unless she tells you to piss off.

    Is she at your uni or work?

    By the way is English your first language, not being rude the guy I like is an European (non UK) student.
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    (Original post by Veldrin)
    You're starting to scare me....:eek:
    Lol I think you're joking plus he's an European (non UK) student and if you are too I think your taking the piss.
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    no my language is nepali i am too poor in english and i had join the forum to get help for every pblm i had got coz i cant fce it directly with people
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    (Original post by ForeverGold)
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    What? You described me perfectly. And I have green eyes.

    You don't go to York by any chance? :eek:
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    (Original post by knowme)
    no my language is nepali i am too poor in english and i had join the forum to get help for every pblm i had got coz i cant fce it directly with people
    Oh ok your English is good hope the forum can help make it better.
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    (Original post by DarkSenrine)
    What? You described me perfectly. And I have green eyes.

    You don't go to York by any chance? :eek:
    Lol sorry I'm not hope you find that York girl.
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    (Original post by ForeverGold)
    Care to elaborate further any particular reason that you are shy.
    It was a joke at first

    no but yes i'am a little shy around girls, more comfortable around guys or people closer to me.
    I guess you want me to tell you what is the reason, well idk everyone has a little degree of shyness i think so it's universal i think i'm better at talking and explaining now or at least improving so it's getting less of a problem but girls should like shy guys there's nothing wrong with us! usually we're more sweet than the arrogant guys out there.
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    To the OP, you are incredible!
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    (Original post by Casshern1456)
    It was a joke at first

    no but yes i'am a little shy around girls, more comfortable around guys or people closer to me.
    I guess you want me to tell you what is the reason, well idk everyone has a little degree of shyness i think so it's universal i think i'm better at talking and explaining now or at least improving so it's getting less of a problem but girls should like shy guys tehere's nothing wrong with us! usually we're more sweet than the arrogant guys out there.
    Oh sorry I ruined the joke :ahee:

    I agree shy guys are :cute:
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    (Original post by bmt)
    To the OP, you are incredible!
    Are you joking?
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    (Original post by ForeverGold)
    lol that's why I like him he's really shy but he seems really naughty underneath all that.
    It's always the quiet ones. Must be all that repressed confidence ready to explode.
    How long did it take him to get comfortable to be with you?
    Yeah shy guys tend to be the best tehe I think your right with the exploding confidence! He's still a little shy around everyone else but get him alone and PHWAOR. Sorry I could rant here :P

    I guess we instantly clicked and have always had a bit of banter going on between us but he didn't open up to me and become a close friend until after a year, then I worked on it and eventually he admitted to me that my confidence turned him on so that means as well as being close friends were good lovers as well as were crazy about each other after suppressing it for so long!
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    (Original post by ForeverGold)
    Please don't move mods I would like people to choose to go anon if they wish.

    When I was reading the "I'm too ugly" thread and OP mentioned BDD I was wondering if I had that since I have depression, anxiety and low self esteem when it comes to the way I look I hate looking at the mirror and taking pictures with friends because I always look like crap even though people say I'm pretty but I don't believe them since I've never had a boyfriend.
    But the guy I like is painfully shy, I'm shy too but I do talk to him mainly about work but sometimes he looks pissed off so I don't talk to him then (so I wanted to know more about his behaviour)

    Anyway I was searching about it and came across "Love shyness" because it's linked with anxiety and came across points that might be linked to it.

    -mainly have female siblings (I thought it would be the opposite but maybe because they are likely to be more sensitive)
    -more violent fantasies
    -were very pessimistic and cynical about the world
    -were much more likely to believe that nobody cared about them
    -Some might stare compulsively at women with whom they were infatuated or even stalk them
    -More likely to be friends with females
    -frequent feelings of depression, loneliness and alienation
    -addictions of various types
    -School bullying
    -Parental upbringing including verbal abuse, criticism, 'put-downs', negative comparisons
    -love shy heterosexual males are assumed to be homosexual, so homosexual guys are likely to make advances on them but they get rejected.

    The guy I like even though I don't know anything about his personal life but the things I do know is
    - He stares all the time when I see him, where ever we are he's always staring, even though I assume I have something on my face (But I don't mind because I like him anyway :grin:)
    -He is mainly friends with females even though he does have male friends but more female ones
    -He always looks pissed off, and he normally is on his own which makes my eyes sad :cry2: But he looks pissed off so I don't know if he wants me to go and talk to him even though I do if he's next to me. :love:
    -He smokes a lot but could just be the nicotine
    -I did thought at first that he was gay but now I realised he's just painfully shy and his gay friend tried it on with him, but he rejected him and stopped talking to him

    But I wanted to know if any other love shy guys especially from painfully shy guys are similar to the points above.

    If you're a girl who knows a love shy guy or painfully shy guy your comments are welcome.


    Please no trolls including comments like "Cool story Bruh" or "Pics or GTFO"

    Edit don't know why I'm being negged I don't even have rep to neg anyone :unimpressed:
    Where did you get all those points from? Some of them sound pretty accurate. :yep:
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    (Original post by ForeverGold)
    Are you joking?
    genuinely not, reading your posts has made me realise that there are great girls out there
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    "Yes, I know"
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    (Original post by DumpOrStay?)
    Whut?
    What the **** is that shiet in your video?
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    (Original post by Jmzie-Coupe)
    What the **** is that shiet in your video?
    I beg your pardon?
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    (Original post by mabelbarc)
    Yeah shy guys tend to be the best tehe I think your right with the exploding confidence! He's still a little shy around everyone else but get him alone and PHWAOR. Sorry I could rant here :P

    I guess we instantly clicked and have always had a bit of banter going on between us but he didn't open up to me and become a close friend until after a year, then I worked on it and eventually he admitted to me that my confidence turned him on so that means as well as being close friends were good lovers as well as were crazy about each other after suppressing it for so long!
    Awwww That's so sweet :cute: Here's some +rep

    I wish something sweet like that happens to me :moon:
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    erm............................. ...................*USER WAS TOO SHY TO COMMENT*
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    (Original post by DumpOrStay?)
    I beg your pardon?
    Your video. Your signature. What is THAT?
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    (Original post by Jmzie-Coupe)
    Your video. Your signature. What is THAT?
    I have a sig? O.o
 
 
 
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