(Original post by im so academic)
I'd rather be ostracised and pursue my own interests, as opposed to being accepted for engaging with supposed banal "common" interests.
You are my new idol, starting from today
Upset over my lack of social life... watch
- 10-04-2011 00:59
- 10-04-2011 01:03
go to a party or hold a party yourself have a drink and maybe you will come out of your shell
- 10-04-2011 01:12
Oh, I have the same problem too. Hmm, maybe you could join some book club if you're into reading? I'm going to do that.
Another thing is you might want to speak to a cousellor or something. I've just arranged a counselling session at uni.
But you know, what will really make you feel better is chat to your friends. I've no friends at uni (sigh) and try as I may, I just can't get people to accept me.
And yeah, you might want to get a new interest. I now spend all my time at Waterstones reading philosophy and I think it's worthwhile analysing something new.
- 10-04-2011 02:23
I only have one friend who 's in none of my lessons and hardly ever in college the same time as me. She hates to go out. And now we've fallen out. fml.
Same as you thought, whenever I would chance to sit with some other people I won't talk..
(Original post by LeaX)
- 10-04-2011 14:01
I'm gonna try, but I don't know who to ask and what we should do. Money is really tight for my best friend so I don't know what we could do really lol. They do wanna meet up because we're always saying at school that we'll go shopping in the holidays and that we'll meet up but they never say anything to me so it's always gotta be me asking and I hate that.
Maybe the reason they don't arrange anything is that they feel the same as you - they're not sure anyone else really wants to because no one ever says anything. Maybe if someone takes the initiative things will start happening more.
- 10-04-2011 15:18