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    i was in the same position...i broke up with the guy and i did well in my exams and i was really happy i broke up with him cas if i didnt my grades wouldve suffered a lot ...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i was in the same position...i broke up with the guy and i did well in my exams and i was really happy i broke up with him cas if i didnt my grades wouldve suffered a lot ...
    oh wow,, but its just hard i honestly didnt want it up this way.
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    Seriously, don't let her hold you back. At the end of the day, you're young, don't feel you need to tie yourself to someone with no ambition. Deciding not to go to uni is fine, but if she's barely revising now that suggests to me that she's lazy, and going nowhere.

    Don't try and talk to her. Just leave it for a bit, she'll come to you if she really cares. If not, you'll break up, and probably be better off for it. Why should you put in the effort for someone so selfish?
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    cheers guys, helped alot. I'm just gonna leave it for now and stop thinking about it all .
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    (Original post by Nkhan)
    Ha nice one mate glad its working for you.
    And I always give her all the attention in the world I must say but she seems to think thats not enough :/
    You're assuming that more attention= more satisfied girlfriend. In fact, ironically less attention can lead to a more satisfied girlfriend. Girls are drama fiends. That's why they watch grey's anatomy, holby city, neighbours, read trashy novels, and see lots of films which are essentially emotional porn.

    If you're being loving to her, that's not dramatic. People in holby city don't spend hours cuddling up to their girlfriend, they cheat on them and do crazy stuff.

    If you are silent 60% of the time that will make her wonder what you are doing without her. That mystery will be sexy. You can send her the odd witty text (short, always) to keep her thinking about you. Then, when you do come, you can be dramatic, emotional, loving, and it'll mean so much more because of your absense.

    Less can be more.
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    (Original post by Nkhan)
    After I told my girlfriend that I wouldn't be able to spend as much time with her during the easter break, she didnt take it so well and got rather angry. The last couple of weeks I havent been focusing much on revision an all and I have actutally spent nearly all my time with her so I'd thought she'd understand that I have to get some revision done as exams are very important to me. (She's not planning to go to uni so she's hardly revising.)

    I told her yesterday that I couldnt come over to her house cos of work and then out of nowhere she was saying how I dont care about her anymore and just using her at times which suit me the best! :/ Obviously thats absolute *******s cos I do care about her and all.
    And like now today she's hardly picking up her phone and replying to any of my texts. What should I do? Have I done the wrong thing :/
    Just sex her so hard that she is in pain for days and doesn't want no more attention.
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    This is mean, but reminded me of this:

    [IMG]http://www.mulaz.org/spam/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/gtfo-*****-im-doing-science.jpg[/IMG]
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    She's being pretty selfish, it's not like you're being distant or even asking for much, so I would guess that her ignoring your texts is a cry for attention.

    But regardless of my opinion the situation is very petty and I'm sure things will be fine once you actually finish your revision, having more free time again.
 
 
 
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