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    These are my two worst traits. My boyfriend knows I'm insecure and it has gotten to the point where he's frustrated by it. No longer just cuddling me and telling me to stop being silly, but actually getting annoyed at me and asking if there's any point in us being together.

    I am a jealous person and this obviously stems from my insecurity about myself and the fear that my boyfriend will leave me for someone better than me. I feel anxious when he goes clubbing without me. There are certain friends of his that I actually dislike and feel jealous towards because I think they're prettier than me and wonder if he likes them/they like him. I do keep this much more hidden than my insecurity, so he doesn't know exactly how crazy I am. But I still feel it. I'm sitting here stewing because he went out last night, imagining him dancing with his friend (a girl who's so pretty it's unfair and that he used to fancy) and being drunk and ugh. I hate myself for feeling like this and probably if you knew me then you'd never know that I did. I can't bring myself to talk to anyone because I know they'd judge me.

    He's going on holiday with friends at the weekend and I know that I'm going to spend the whole week feeling anxious, jealous, angry and resentful, especially because I'm not going to hear from him very much. When probably, he isn't going to do anything wrong. But I will still get annoyed and moody with him when I see the pictures put on facebook and when he tells me all about it. I need your help TSR

    It's a natural part of life, guys feel it too.

    You sort of learn to live with it after a while :console:
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