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Reply 1
It's hard to tell, my guess is if you think about them constantly, you just want to spend every second with them, you'd do anythign for them even if your life depended on it etc
Reply 2
it's not romeo n juliet...
i suppose it's when you don't feel sick when if you've spent the whole week/month/year with eachother...and how when you accept their flaws
i suppose it's when you don't feel sick when if you've spent the whole week/month/year with eachother...and how when you accept their flaws
Reply 3
when you have total trust
Reply 4
Nah, I totally trust some people I don't love.
I know i love my boyfriend because i think about how every action might effect him before i do it. He's the priority.
There's loads of other stuff too, but that's particularly relevant to him over other relationships i have, rather than trust and wanting to spend time with them. That's obviously necessary as well though. xx
There's loads of other stuff too, but that's particularly relevant to him over other relationships i have, rather than trust and wanting to spend time with them. That's obviously necessary as well though. xx
hmm its tricky... countless people have thought theyre in love and realise afterwards that they weren't. there's a fine line between infatuation and being in love/loving someone.
i think especially in the early stages in a relationship it's hard to tell, if it's all passionate and amazing, i think it's only as things go on and you start to perhaps see their flaws that you know for sure... if you know that your boyf can sometimes be a a bit *insert flaw here* but that more often than not you can still stare at him dreamily ffrom across the room its probably genuine lurrve.
i dont know if trust is a mark of love... i love my boyfriend but i dont know yet if i can entirely trust him, but thats just because i have difficulties and feel vulnerable putting myself on the line. i think love is a gut feeling, and that when youre at your most rational and not feeling all romantic and loved up, and you still think, wow, this guy is amazing, then i think it's love.
i think especially in the early stages in a relationship it's hard to tell, if it's all passionate and amazing, i think it's only as things go on and you start to perhaps see their flaws that you know for sure... if you know that your boyf can sometimes be a a bit *insert flaw here* but that more often than not you can still stare at him dreamily ffrom across the room its probably genuine lurrve.
i dont know if trust is a mark of love... i love my boyfriend but i dont know yet if i can entirely trust him, but thats just because i have difficulties and feel vulnerable putting myself on the line. i think love is a gut feeling, and that when youre at your most rational and not feeling all romantic and loved up, and you still think, wow, this guy is amazing, then i think it's love.
Reply 11
Depends what you mean by infatuation but surely a type of infatuation is involved in love? feeling hopelessly besotted is infatuation, and if i was to be in love, i'd hope that that feeling was evident...
my grandad apparently told my father 'you should only ever tell a person you love them if you're prepared to walk down the aisle with them'. a bit extreme i think but certainly there is some truth to that advice...the way people sling the word 'love' around is sad i think. it is NOT just an emotional feeling, it's also a logical choice, considering compatability of personalities/intellect/beliefs/goals/outlooks on life etc. Plus lust. Plus trust. Plus the conscious decision to care for them no matter what. and wanting to see them happy, even if that means they'e not with you if that's not what's best for them. complicated stuff, love.
Reply 14
You feel like vomiting.
No, really, there is a difference between loving someone and being in love with them, though.
Just don't ask me what it is.
No, really, there is a difference between loving someone and being in love with them, though.
Just don't ask me what it is.
Reply 16
A good quote, from an unknown person:
"Love at first sight turns rancid and the second glance."
To me being in Love means that you have grown to love, accept and integrate every part of someone else into your life and being. It doesn't happen overnight, it takes time and friendship to reach that level. Just my idea though.
"Love at first sight turns rancid and the second glance."
To me being in Love means that you have grown to love, accept and integrate every part of someone else into your life and being. It doesn't happen overnight, it takes time and friendship to reach that level. Just my idea though.
grace
my grandad apparently told my father 'you should only ever tell a person you love them if you're prepared to walk down the aisle with them'. a bit extreme i think but certainly there is some truth to that advice...the way people sling the word 'love' around is sad i think. it is NOT just an emotional feeling, it's also a logical choice, considering compatability of personalities/intellect/beliefs/goals/outlooks on life etc. Plus lust. Plus trust. Plus the conscious decision to care for them no matter what. and wanting to see them happy, even if that means they'e not with you if that's not what's best for them. complicated stuff, love.
uhuhuhuuhuhuh.. thats why now, when i really mean the word il have to think a thousand times whether i can see myself being her husband.. if not, then its not worth it.. why??? because im gonna hurt the woman in the end.. letting her expect all that -_-
SolInvincitus
A good quote, from an unknown person:
"Love at first sight turns rancid and the second glance."
To me being in Love means that you have grown to love, accept and integrate every part of someone else into your life and being. It doesn't happen overnight, it takes time and friendship to reach that level. Just my idea though.
"Love at first sight turns rancid and the second glance."
To me being in Love means that you have grown to love, accept and integrate every part of someone else into your life and being. It doesn't happen overnight, it takes time and friendship to reach that level. Just my idea though.
That's right.
If not, it's an infatuation, not Love. It's why I prefer being close friends first and then move on to bf/gf.Reply 19
You just feel it. You just know. It's not something that exists independently of you; if it's there, you feel it.
And it's amazing when you do
And it's amazing when you do
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