Im fat and yet get asked out alot

Err.. I wouldn't describe it as an "insult". It was a criticism of the thread, not the person who made it. Are you by any chance that person? Why would you go anonymous for that?

haha thats defo not me. it doesnt make sense making this thread with my username (knowing im risking myself to comments much like yours) and then going and posting something pretty unnecessary being anonymous.

also, what you said in your first comment made me think you hadnt read it properly. i wasnt in anyway saying what you thought i implied.

Pff i'm quite thin and rarely get asked out... maybe i should try the fat thing..

This is what I'm thinking too. It's a win win from where I can see it, to get asked out all I need to do is eat what I like when I want?!?!

It may be because they think the fatter girl won't be taken?
Or it is true that the better men do love curves maybe?

'The better men do love curves maybe?'
First of all, what the **** do you mean by 'the better men'?
And secondly, since when does being fatter mean more curves?

Are you actually serious?

By 'the better men' I meant the ones who don't judge by looks, the ones that don't just 'go' for the pretty, skinny blonde ones. Rather, they look past the looks to the person underneath, those men that actually take the time to get to now the person before they shag them.
I can safely say a size 14+ will have more curves than a size 4 etc.

I bet at least some of this is true:

a) you're hot, really pretty, perhaps not as fat as you think - dress well, have a good personality, bubbly, funny
b) you look easy as well - perhaps the extra weight makes men think you're obtainable
c) the guys who are hitting on you at ugly and/or desperate
d) guys aren't hitting on you - you're mistaking advances, and/or thinking a few is a lot

Moral of the story is that we are a very superficial society - men do go for attractive girls - if you want to be more attractive and be healthier lose the weight. It's not that hard - do some proper research and don't be lazy - go to the gym, do cardio, lift weights and control your calories and macronutrients and eat healthy. Very unhealthy attitude is that appearance doesn't matter to men and to give out a message that you should be happy being fat and not try to change - it's popular because it's easy, but ultimately it's a lie. Don't live in Disneyland.

im a size 16 and yet i've noticed guys seem interested in getting to know me better and i get asked out quite a bit.

This is NOT me trying to tell you all that being fat is a good thing or that its OK, cos it isn't. I'm working on losing the weight myself! (I was a national swimmer until i got injured in an accident bad and was in bed rest for 2 years so put on 5 stone.)

My point here is that all you people who think they arent in relationships because of their bodies, chances are its more to do with your attitude towards yourself and your general demeanor rather than just your appearance.

I used to be quite curious about how in a superficial world like ours, someone very intelligent and at the same time extremely handsome would want to be with an unfit person, and then i was put to senses by the same man aforementioned, that he'd never met a girl sharper and more fun to be around. received many similar comments.

so all you people who think you need to be fitter than you are, continue working on yourself, and keep it in mind that you're more than just your body! all the best!

EDIT: about the fat girls are easier comment, i'd agree if it was like an ONS, not when people want relationships or when they ask you out on multiple dates.

By 'the better men' I meant the ones who don't judge by looks, the ones that don't just 'go' for the pretty, skinny blonde ones. Rather, they look past the looks to the person underneath, those men that actually take the time to get to now the person before they shag them.
I can safely say a size 14+ will have more curves than a size 4 etc.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hogging_(sexual_practice)

So much faults with that post.
Firstly you say that 'the better men' are those who look past appearance and look deeper into a person's personality, after you just stated that 'the better men prefer curves.' Is curves a personality then?

And then you use size 14 which is not even that fat to outline your point whilst using an extremely petite size 4. It would have been better to compare say size 8/10 with size 16/18.
And then yes you can then say that a size 8 person could well be more curvy than a size 16/18 as they have a more defined, and narrower waist, which is essentially what curves are, rather than the larger size who may have a stomach and so would not actually have the hour glass, true 'curvy' shape which goes in at the waist and then out at the hips.
Having said that body shape is the only true way to define curves. The size 16 person may carry the weight well and may have a smaller waist whereas the size 8 person can have a more boyish figure, and would still have a boyish figure at size 16- the characteristic 'truck' shape.

So here's the lesson, weight does not define curves, unless perhaps at only a completely extreme level, I hope you take this away with you and get rid of that misconception.


Goodbye.

I was on the bus yesterday and when we got to a stop a 20ish year old skinny black dude ran to the front of the bus to help this supermassive 400lb white woman get on with her mixed race baby. She eventually managed to get in and wobbled to the front seats where she shouted "I need to sit here... move" to the people sitting there, who immediately fled (probably out of fear of being sat on). The black guy then sat in the seat next to (as close as next to as was possible) her and kept kissing her and whispering stuff to her the rest of the journey.

Love is sometimes blind.

haha! nailed it in one




lulz

The boys that are interested in you must be blind. Don't take it personally but there are tonnes of guys that think fat people are fit. They just can't see past the chavvy hair and makeup, not to mention the slutty personality.