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    So far I have proof (facebook messages, emails) that he is cheating on her, whether he has slept with this woman or not I am unsure. Should I tell my mum or leave it? My mum would be distraught as they have been married for over 20 years plus she thinks he is being kind and caring (for once in his life). I don't know what to do.
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    Yes. My friend was in the same position and she told her mum. Only do it if you're sure he's cheating and not just sending messages to a woman.
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    I have been in this position before, and yes I think you should tell her. It will come out one way or another and she will be hurt if she finds out you knew.
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    My dad told me not to tell my mum he was going to leave her. I didn't tell her. Then he told her I knew and hadn't said anything. It's been 3 years, she hasn't forgiven me. Take from that what you want.
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    Great, all the messages above make me feel ****.
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    Maybe someone else is using your dad's facebook, don't tell your mum yet, follow your dad when he meets her.
 
 
 
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