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    There is a girl who thinks I'm good looking and would play with her hair etc when I was around. I kno she doesn't have a bf. We got to kno each other and are still on good terms. I told her i like her but she told me she doesn't see me that way. I was suprised as the way she would behave around me and I know she found me attractive cos I overheard her say it when she thought I wasnt there plus could tell when I would be around.

    She told me I should find another girl and she has no feelings. I kno she has no bf and we r still friends even though we don't know each other too well. She told me firmly she doesn't see me the way I see her in terms of liking.

    Can a girl find a guy attractive and still do this? She did say she doesn't like anyone. She is not you know what by the way.
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    You don't know what's in her mind & you can't make judgement because she's playing with her hair. Maybe she thinks you are good looking but she likes someone else while she doesn't want to express it or let people know about her inner feelings.
    P.S. what is you know what, Lord Voldemort?
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    Of course she can, any person can. There are loads of girls I find attractive, might even enjoy a flirt with but not want to go out with.
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    It's called the friend zone get used to it.
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    (Original post by Fight-or-Flight)
    You don't know what's in her mind & you can't make judgement because she's playing with her hair. Maybe she thinks you are good looking but she likes someone else while she doesn't want to express it or let people know about her inner feelings.
    P.S. what is you know what, Lord Voldemort?
    :teehee: That's what I thought when I read that.

    OP: yes it's possible to find someone attractive but not feel any "spark," if you know what I mean. You may just not have compatible personalities. As for the playing wit her hair, she could just be naturally playful and flirty, it isn't a definite sign that she likes you that way.
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    I find many pornstars attractive but I wouldn't go out with them
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    You know, you could have just wrote "There's this girl who finds me attractive but who also refuses my advances to take her out on a date. Is she actually being sincere when saying she isn't interested in me although finding me attractive?" or something as equally short instead of writing the ridiculously convoluted essay above...

    But back on topic; yes it's perfectly possible.
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    Yes, for different reasons you can find someone really cute, sweet and attractive but not have feelings for them.
    Personally, its true for me because their good friends with me and I know them too well to even think of them in that way.
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    Its like having a sister (Which I don't have by the way) and acknowledging that she is attractive. Doesn't mean you wanna **** her though.
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    She did make it clear and gave me signals that she found me attractive but when I asked her she said she doesn't think about me in that way
 
 
 
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