This girl I was kind of into, and still am a bit I guess, has been speaking to this guy for a few weeks. I'm almost 100% certain he likes her and she seems fairly interested in back although I don't know for sure. Since they've been talking she's been notably distant with me, giving one word answers, not making much eye contact, etc. She's happy to be more open with people around me and other friends, but with me she's a lot colder.
Now some people have speculated that she's not interested in me, that she doesn't want to seem like she was leading me on, etc etc. But if she wasn't that into me in the first place why act like this now? It's not as if I've shown any obvious signs of interest in her. I offered her a hug once and offered to pay for her ticket for a gig, but I would have done if it was any friend. That's it.
I can't recall doing anything massive to offend her. At most I've done a bit of teasing which she's found funny. I guess in response to her coldness, I guess as a natural shield type thing, I've started to be distant with her back.
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