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Virgin or non virgin, what do you want in a relationship.

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I plan to stay a virgin for a long time so, for that reason, I'd want someone with a bit of experience. Not someone who has gone round and round the world of sex but whose numbers are less than 10.

Reply 21

get__free

Original post by Cicerao

I'm a jealous soul.

She might if she were a virgin herself. :]

I suppose. But assuming we are talking about the British community, that would be a very small chance... unless we are gonna bring something like cultural differences into play.

Reply 22

Mad4footie

Original post by imperial maniac

Personally I think a virgin would be even more likely to pressure you.

Not if he's waiting too. If he's not but says he'll wait, sooner or later he'll get tired of waiting and either start pressuring me, or get it somewhere else.

Reply 23

L-J-B

Look at the hassle mary caused joseph. Non virgin thank you very much...

Reply 24

ChocolateMonkey

Original post by katyness

I plan to stay a virgin for a long time so, for that reason, I'd want someone with a bit of experience. Not someone who has gone round and round the world of sex but whose numbers are less than 10.

I'm curious on how this conversation would go and how you would then proceed to dump someone because you didnt like the numbers. o.O

Reply 25

canimakeit

I want a Jedi,

Honestly I couldn't care less whether they are a virgin or not, but if they have had huge numbers in the sack best to keep it to themselves I rather not know.

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 26

NOBODY MOVE!

Original post by rawwwwr!

I went for "Want a virgin" lol.

BRING ME MY VIRGIN. ;D

you rang? ;D

About rawwwwr!
Orientation Straight

... oh. :/

Reply 27

Profesh

I'm neither religious nor insecure, so frankly couldn't care less.

Reply 28

TheWorld!

Well I am planning on saving sex for marraige....hopefully but i wouldnt penalise any guy for having had sex before.

Reply 29

jabberwocky43219

Anyone else think "Virgin or Non Virgin" sounds like a very strange version of Deal or No Deal?

Reply 30

Stressworthy

It all really depends on the person tbh and whether or not I feel compatible with them/want to have sex with them. So it wouldn't really matter to me whether they were a virgin or non-virgin... I've been attracted to people who've slept with 10+ people, less than a handful or none for different reasons... so yeah, completely just depends on my chemistry with the person.

Reply 31

xXMessedUpXx

Honestly I don't think i'd care either way, and i woulodn't ask for a low number cos then i'd be a hypocrite :redface:

That said I'm 24, so it bothers me less as the way i see it they've had 8+years to have had sex so i wouldn't expect them to be virginal.

Reply 32

Blueflare

I really don't care.

Though a non-virgin would be easier, practically speaking.

Reply 33

rawwwwr!

Original post by NOBODY MOVE!

you rang? ;D

About rawwwwr!
Orientation Straight

... oh. :/

Damn.

Reply 34

Pink Bullets

Everyone should keep in mind that these results are heavily skewed by the average age of this forum's members. I can't imagine anyone (except for the waiting-for-marriage types) out of their teens actively preferring virgins. I can't even remember the last time anyone asked if I was a virgin. Past a certain age, it's just assumed that you're not one. And nobody cares. At all.

Reply 35

CherryCherryBoomBoom

I may slightly lean to preferring a virgin, because I am one myself. Not sure why tbh, maybe just the whole having a new experience and learning together thing. But then again, if the right guy for me happened to be a non-virgin, that wouldn't really put me off as long as he hadn't had too many women.

Reply 36

Anonymous #1

I'm a girl, and I suppose I'd prefer a virgin - just because I'm one as well, and it'd make me feel less nervous! :redface:

Plus we could get more experience together. Still, I don't think it matters that much.

Reply 37

n65uk

I do not care, a hole's a hole as long as it isn't filled up to the brim with STI's.

Reply 38

(Online)

I would have prefered a virgin if I'm honest. Don't get me wrong, I love my boyfriend to bits, but because I feel so stongly about him, I wish we could have shared the experience.

Although, it was nice to have him know what to do... I was really nervous, and he helped make me feel safe.

So I guess I don't mind lol.