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    Got a bit of a problem.
    There's a guy that I really like that I work with. We're good friends and he speaks to me a lot, asking how I am, what I've been doing at the weekend etc and when I text him he texts back very quickly.
    We get on very well.
    However, it's always me that instigates the texts or chat and never him. Yet it seems that he does like me.
    I mean, I've always thought that if a bloke isn't interested, he won't text back quickly or at all.
    Don't get it.
    Any opinions would be appreciated.
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    Many guys see it as a sign of politeness to text back instantly. If you refuse to text you're just playing a game.

    You can tell if he likes you by if he flirts with you.
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    He did when we went to the pub Friday and he's always catching my eye. Just don't get why I'm always the one to instigate things.
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    Maybe wait til he texts you first? Maybe youre always beating him to it
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    Maybe just make a move and see what happens?
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    Have you seen the movie ,"He's just not that into you "


    my 3,333 post
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    What the **** is with girls on tsr and having to text someone first or someone not ****ing texting back quick enough, theres so many threads that mention it!!!!!
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    maybe does like you and he's just nervous
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    He probably enjoys you texting first; he's likely enjoying the fact you're interested enough to start a conversation.
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    Nest time he catches your eye, give him that smile and he should get the message that you like him without you having to give him a literal message.
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    (Original post by ryan02)
    maybe does like you and he's just nervous
    Yeah, sounds like he's unsure if you like him back and a bit nervous to make a move.
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    soo..if a guy doesn't text back quickly it means he's not into you? nah
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    why don't you just ask him, much easier than us trying to guess from vague information!
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    (Original post by ryan02)
    maybe does like you and he's just nervous
    Is it possible for a man in his 20s to be nervous about that?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Is it possible for a man in his 20s to be nervous about that?
    Of course , especially if he is inexperienced
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    Here's an idea I'll just throw out there; ask him?
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    (Original post by Jmzie-Coupe)
    Here's an idea I'll just throw out there; ask him?
    Are you insane?

 
 
 
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