I'm an 18 year old guy and I had always been attracted to girls, been in two relationships with girls that ended pretty soon, me being dumped. When I reached about 15 was when I realized that I also find men pretty attractive so it was pretty late for me. After that when I became 16 and 17; my feelings grew for men and I thought maybe I was gay, I came really close to having sex with a man but then randomly decided I shouldn't yet. But now I'm 18 and its been a few months I really liked this amazing pretty looking girl at my college, but I still thought I was gay because my feelings weren't strong enough for her; but recently I've been dreaming of being with her and kissing her. I really want to ask her out. I've seen her paying attention at me whenever I'm talking and she randomly tends to smile at me but my feelings for her are emotional but not sexual. I think she might think I'm gay because I act pretty camp sometimes and always hug my male friends or even hold their hands if they don't mind me doing so.
I hate being bisexual, so confusing!!! Watch
- Thread Starter
- 10-04-2011 21:09
- 10-04-2011 21:20
You're not bi, you're greedy. Pick a side and stick to it.Last edited by Countmein; 10-04-2011 at 21:23.
- 10-04-2011 21:22
I didn't realise I was bi until I was 20
And I know what you mean about being emotionally attracted rather than sexually attracted -- with my girlfriend that's what it was to start with -- but then the sexual thing grew, mainly as we started being sexual, and now I definitely think about her sexually.. I went through the confusion thing too so I do get it. I never really appreciated how confusing it could be until I experienced it. But if you're dreaming about kissing her and doing things to her then I'm going to say you're into her!
You won't know if she thinks you're gay unless you make a move, and then she'll know you're not. Give it a go
- 10-04-2011 21:23
Explain the situation to her and see what she thinks of it?
- 10-04-2011 21:24
You haven't even had sex with a man?
How do you even know for sure if you're bisexual till you take one up the arse?
- 10-04-2011 21:25
Just go out with who you want to go out with and don't try and put a lable on everything ... I identify as a lesbian but occasionally I'll make out with a guy at a party, I don't question who I am when it happens though