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    its my ex's bday tomorrow...n he's asked me to meet up 4 a few 'b'day' drinks.

    thing is we only broke up a month ago after bein together 4 over a year. I still really care about him, bt i don't know if we shud get bk together or not, bt at the same time i don't wanna b a ***** n just don't go/don't wanna end up goin n drinkin too much n doin somethin i regret.

    any suggestions?
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    Go, but don't drink too much and do something you regret.

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    Go, watch what you drink, and if you don't wanna do him at the end of the night, don't. If you fancy a bit, then you've been there before and know what to expect, so why not. As long as you are both aware of how things stand for each circumstance, why can't two adults enjoy a night out, or even a night in bed if they want ? Ex-sex can be great, as long as you know it's not an attempt to revive the past, unless that's what you both really want.
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    you can still go and see him etc, just don't drink too much

    if you're confused as to whether you wanna be with him or not then try to avoid talking about things until you've made a firm decision
 
 
 
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