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    I'm male. *Huge sigh from readers* & BI :L

    So.. For the past 2 years i've been madly in-love with my best mate, he's the only one who knows i'm bi and it's been hard to watch him try and get with girls but now we're drifting apart as best mates I don't mind now, and am trying to get over him a.s.a.p.

    So now there's another guy, he's been in my classes for this being the second year, at first we never got along.. I hated him with a passion and most of his friend-base, then I started bothering with alot of his friends and I guess things became mutual. It's weird because I keep thinking he's trying to become my mate, but the awkwardness of rarely talking is in the way. So in a subject it was boy-girl-boy-girl etc and we were there for months, and then all of a sudden he's in the wrong seat next to me. Weeks after that we sat by eachother but never talked, felt weird. Then he added me on MSN and liked a few of my things on FB. We've talked quite a few times online but hardly ever INRL. Infact only like 3 times? I've also noticed him looking at me but he may have done this before and i'm just over-thinking things.

    I guess I wanna try and fall for him because it'd be much easier to cope with, and easier to get over him, or if not just be mates to him :P But I don't know what to do? I sit by him but never know what to say, and when he's with his friends I wouldn't say anything then anyway because it'll just be out of the norm.

    Any advice appreciated :P

    Cheers.
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    anyone?
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    dnt let me down TSR!
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    First things first, do you know that this guy is gay? If you are not sure, then just try and be friends and see where it goes. By the sounds of it you aren't sure that he is straight, which is good, as if this is the case make sure that you don't fall for him, as in the long ruin this will be a bad idea (you are still young). Although some people say you can't go from friends to being more than, that is a complete lie! So make friends with this guy if you can, talk to him on msn, start liking his things With your best mate, try not to lose a friend, but be selfish and put number one first. If you are drifting apart and trying too hard is bringing up feelings, then just let it drift apart naturally, and it may cometogether in time. If you wan't any more help just ask, and I hope I can.
 
 
 
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