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    I've never done this before, but I haven't been in a proper relationship for ages so thought I'd give friends-with-benefits a go. I slept with my friend a few times and we plan to keep it going, but now I'm thinking about him lots and getting stressed about him calling/texting me enough... oh dear. There is another guy who likes me but he is quite a player. Although its completely against my nature and I'd be quite shocked at myself, I'm thinking maybe I should have sex with him too, to stop me getting emotionally involved with the original guy. What do we think?

    I'm the kind of person who would never have a one night stand so this would be a bit drastic for me... but I'm finishing uni in a month or 2 so maybe its time to be a bit "crazy"? lol
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    WINNING.
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    Hmm sleeping with someone just to try and forget about your feelings with another person sounds tricky to me. By all means go for it, just be careful and try not to get in too deep.
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    How about not sleeping with any guys until you're in a relationship? There's nothing wrong with FwB. but it looks like you're the type who can't handle it. Just tell the first guy you're getting emotionally involved, he'll either reciprocate your feeling or will see it's sensible to end it.
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    Stop having sex with the person you're developing feelings for if they don't want a relationship! Messy situation.
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    That doesn't seem much of a question. It seems more like you're trying to justify to yourself why you are going to sleep with 2 men at the same time.

    Nothing wrong with it, you're old enough to make your own mind up. Just stop trying to convince yourself it is acceptable.
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    (Original post by ohwhatalovely)
    I'm the kind of person who would never have a one night stand so this would be a bit drastic for me... but I'm finishing uni in a month or 2 so maybe its time to be a bit crazy lol
    In other words, you want to become a slut now that you're finishing Uni?
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    Do what you want. It's your life not ours.
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    Shag the other guy too & then it's 'welcome to ****dome'




    I wouldn't shag the playa if I were you, you might like the other guy more and he might be put off that your shagging some other playa
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    Just **** whoever you want. Sex is a good thing so the more you can get the better for you.
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    Oh haa, snap! I wouldn't have sex with the player until you cut it off with the first guy, unless you think that you'll be okay long-term with something that you're obviously uncomfortable with right now .. Sex is a minefield if you have trouble handling it emotionally, and in your case it might be best to keep it in your pants so that you don't do something (or someone :sexface: ) that you'll regret
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    (Original post by laurenl93)
    Shag the other guy too & then it's 'welcome to ****dome'




    I wouldn't shag the playa if I were you, you might like the other guy more and he might be put off that your shagging some other playa

    mm, the reason I am doing fwb with the guy is I'm attracted to him but he's moving abroad after uni so getting into a relationship with him now wouldn't help anything! I just want to keep having sex with him but not worry so much about how he's feeling about me.
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    (Original post by lexi99)
    just be careful and try not to get in too deep.
    innuendo!
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    Everyone needs to chill down. Sleep with them both. Sleep with me. S'all good.
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    (Original post by Lexi99)
    Hmm sleeping with someone just to try and forget about your feelings with another person sounds tricky to me. By all means go for it, just be careful and try not to get in too deep.
    Im sure she wont be the one going in too deep don't worry. :awesome:
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    (Original post by wangelo)
    Im sure she wont be the one going in too deep don't worry. :awesome:
    :five:
 
 
 
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