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    im so confused and need some advice! for 5 months now ive liked this guy, we have been pulling on nights out since before christmas. We've been texting and see each other at uni often. However i would like us to start seeing each other, a couple of weeks ago i texted him after a night out telling him i really liked him and wondered if he fancied meeting up at somepoint, he replied saying he would but could we wait till the holidays cause we had so much uni work on. So 2 weeks have now passed and we pulled again on thursday but yet we still havent meet up. Is it up to me to suggest a time to meet or should i wait for him? or is he was playing me? he really doesnt seem that type but im starting to get fed up with the whole situation, just tough cause i really like him
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    I'm assuming "pulled" means had sex? Speak english.

    Anyway, if that's the case, then you're nothing but a booty call to him.

    Accept that, or move on.

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    no pulling just as in kissing in clubs
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    I think you misunderstand what the term 'pulled' means..

    But anyway.
    Just suggest a time and thing to do, e.g. go for a drink or whatever. If he says no this, or the time after, with little or no reason.. then tbh.. it validates my first thought that he just uses you for sex. Presuming that's what you mean by 'pulling'
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    you're using "pulled" in completely the wrong context
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    Most likely he is still making up his mind about you, and whether he wants to take it further. Do nothing, he should ask you out if he really wants to. Perhaps stop pulling him as well? ... Unless he is the the shy type? In which case he may be scared to ask you out.
 
 
 
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