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One Night Stands.... purely physical.... watch

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    before uni i always thought they were wrong, then i lost my virginity on one within the first couple of weeks, which turned into a still ongoing friends with benefits situation :mmm:
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    How do you have a one night stand.

    "Excuse me miss would you like to have a one night stand?"

    Or is a lot of deviousness and deception involved?
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    I suspect it couldn't be "purely Physical". For someone to have coitus (lol Sheldon), it takes more than just another human. There needs to be an attraction and a similar personality, e.g, you would not see a fashionable girl with a hippy - perhaps. So there must be some attraction and compatibility between the shaggers or else it would never happen in the first place.

    One night stands never worked for me in the morning. Too frightening to wake up to a stranger next to me.
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    Don't get attached with the person to easily though, I don't see any wrong with it unless you're in a relationship/married.
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    Probably not a great idea.
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    I had a one night stand once. I used a condom that said 'ribbed for her pleasure'. Wasn't a fan. She got most of the enjoyment.

    Now I stay at home, turn it inside out and please myself.

    WINNING!!
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    I think they're fine as long as it's safe and both people aren't under a false hope that it's going to go somewhere, as long as both people understand what the situation is and they're happy with that, then I don't see the problem.
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    I think its wrong. Men sweet talk the girl and feed them all the bollox then get what they want and do 1. Ive seen so many of my friends hurt by one night stands. If your guna hurt a girl at least tell her u only want her for sex and not lead her along. So tbh i cant stand people who want them just watch porn for god sake and not hurt half the decent people in this world.
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    (Original post by essexgirllauren)
    I think its wrong. Men sweet talk the girl and feed them all the bollox then get what they want and do 1. Ive seen so many of my friends hurt by one night stands. If your guna hurt a girl at least tell her u only want her for sex and not lead her along. So tbh i cant stand people who want them just watch porn for god sake and not hurt half the decent people in this world.
    You make it sound as though girls never want them... Yeah, I've had ONSs in the past, every time both parties have been perfectly clear on what the deal was, in fact, more often than not [for me] it was the girl who suggeested it.

    Don't make guys out as the weak link in the chain, that might be what you've seen, but it doesn't mean it's the reality for everyone else.
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    Plus, I'm boringly self-concious. I guess it's a trust thing. And I don't trust anyone enough to do it with. I dunno, my reasoning is ****ed atm. :dontknow:[/QUOTE]

    same.... :/
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    (Original post by leahrascal)
    same lol... although if a guy has had a lot of one night stands it puts me off them anyway, i think other guys think it's cool but when they grow up a bit and they try to find a meaningful relationship and they've had all these one night stands in the past any girl would have their doubts

    I don't think it woulb bother me tbh lol.... aslong as they were being safe...
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    right so some guy you're with has shagged 50 other girls and that wouldn't make you have doubts in the slightest... lol okay then!
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    (Original post by leahrascal)
    right so some guy you're with has shagged 50 other girls and that wouldn't make you have doubts in the slightest... lol okay then!
    Some people just arent as judgemental as others.

    I've had a LOT of men in my time and now I'm settling down. Been there, done that, I'm not into the same things anymore.

    Because people do have the ability to change, I think it's mightily unfair to judge every single one on their past as a predictor of their future and present.
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    that might be so, but you can't help your initial reaction to information you're fed, or how you feel about things either. it varies from person to person so no matter what anyone says in here it's not going to change anyone else's views
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    (Original post by leahrascal)
    that might be so, but you can't help your initial reaction to information you're fed, or how you feel about things either. it varies from person to person so no matter what anyone says in here it's not going to change anyone else's views
    Agreed, but you entertained that it's somehow crazy not to feel 'funny' about a man with a colourful sex past in my previous post quote below. It just seemed that you were disapproving as if your way of thinking is the only right way. Of course if I am wrong then I'll take it back.

    (Original post by leahrascal)
    right so some guy you're with has shagged 50 other girls and that wouldn't make you have doubts in the slightest... lol okay then!
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    (Original post by AreYouDizzeeBlud_x)
    I had a one night stand once. I used a condom that said 'ribbed for her pleasure'. Wasn't a fan. She got most of the enjoyment.

    Now I stay at home, turn it inside out and please myself.

    WINNING!!
    Champion!
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    (Original post by Eveiebaby)
    Agreed, but you entertained that it's somehow crazy not to feel 'funny' about a man with a colourful sex past in my previous post quote below. It just seemed that you were disapproving as if your way of thinking is the only right way. Of course if I am wrong then I'll take it back.
    no because i accept that some people aren't phased by them, but i find it hard to believe that someone's initial reaction to their partner having slept with a mass number of people in the past won't be a bad one or a thoughtful one...
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    (Original post by leahrascal)
    no because i accept that some people aren't phased by them, but i find it hard to believe that someone's initial reaction to their partner having slept with a mass number of people in the past won't be a bad one or a thoughtful one...
    Surely if someone isnt phased by them, they won't have much of a reaction to this 'news'. That's the very nature of not being phased.....
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    they might not be phased once they've processed the information and come to a conclusion on it, but an initial reaction is something quite different...
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    (Original post by leahrascal)
    right so some guy you're with has shagged 50 other girls and that wouldn't make you have doubts in the slightest... lol okay then!
    I Agree, some girl told me she has shagged like 50 + lads it would put me right off.
 
 
 
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