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    Okay so please don't give me moral lectures because I kinda regret this all now.. definitely not worth the worry.
    I'm a 17 year old girl who has been having a kind of open relationship with a boy of the same age.
    I know he had a lot of sexual partners before but he told me he has regular STI checks.. however, recently I have seen another side of him I regret getting involved with him and am therefore doubting these claims.
    I haven't had sex with him but only oral sex- we didn't use a condom but he didn't ejaculate in my mouth (sorry to be graphic).

    I am a worrier by nature and I'm just wondering what you would do in this situation. Wouldn't admit this to anyone but I have all horror stories going round my head about getting AIDs and stuff.. Am i being melodramatic? Can you really catch lots of STI's through oral? I'm going to the GUM clinic tomorrow anyway but they only test for chlamidiya and ghonorrea I want to be checked for everything.

    ADVICE PLEASE?
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    It's unlikely you'll have HIV since bodily fluid needs to be passed for you to catch it, you sound kind of naive/immature for 17 though. I'd also find somewhere else that will do more thorough testing, though it's worth noting that HIV can take up to three months to show up on tests.
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    Okay so please don't give me moral lectures because I kinda regret this all now.. definitely not worth the worry.
    I'm a 17 year old girl who has been having a kind of open relationship with a boy of the same age.
    I know he had a lot of sexual partners before but he told me he has regular STI checks.. however, recently I have seen another side of him I regret getting involved with him and am therefore doubting these claims.
    I haven't had sex with him but only oral sex- we didn't use a condom but he didn't ejaculate in my mouth (sorry to be graphic).

    I am a worrier by nature and I'm just wondering what you would do in this situation. Wouldn't admit this to anyone but I have all horror stories going round my head about getting AIDs and stuff.. Am i being melodramatic? Can you really catch lots of STI's through oral? I'm going to the GUM clinic tomorrow anyway but they only test for chlamidiya and ghonorrea I want to be checked for everything.

    ADVICE PLEASE?
    xxxx
    ps. please quote

    Any advice I could give would be to go to the GUM clinic but you're going anyway..

    The chance of catching any STI without him cumming is low but still
 
 
 
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