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I can't tell whether he's trying to make me jealous or warn me off watch

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    Basically I am very confused by a guy's behaviour towards me and I can't tell if he secretly likes me and is trying to make me jealous or whether he is trying to warn me off.

    Can someone (preferably a guy) please tell me..
    What obvious things would you do to try and get a girl to back off or show that you're not interested?
    What things would you do to make a girl jealous?

    Trying to distinguish between the two,

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    what exactly is this person doing? if i don't have specific examples i have to suspend judgement.
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    I'm generally a nice guy, so I'd try and keep things as low key as possible. I'm not really sure what I'd do, though. Avoid eye contact, maybe not talk to them as much, etc. :dontknow:

    If I want them to back off:

    I'd actually say to them, "Look, I need my own space here, OK? You're following me around, talking to me all the time, just chill!" Probably something like that.

    Jealous:

    Ahh, that'd be hard for me. Erm, if I really wanted to make some jealous, though I've never felt that need, I'd probably be all close and cuddly with another girl, talk to them more or something. But I've never been in that situation, so?
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    (Original post by bingobongo)
    Basically I am very confused by a guy's behaviour towards me and I can't tell if he secretly likes me and is trying to make me jealous or whether he is trying to warn me off.

    Can someone (preferably a guy) please tell me..
    What obvious things would you do to try and get a girl to back off or show that you're not interested?
    What things would you do to make a girl jealous?

    Trying to distinguish between the two,

    Thanks
    Please for the love of god just ask him!!!

    A: Guys like when a girl tells THEM that they are interested.
    B: Its better then doing nothing and not knowing.
    C: Puts your mind at rest, either proving your right/wrong without trapsing around social convention and wondering why youre getting no-where!!!
 
 
 
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