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    if this girl is perfect in every other way then why let that stop you from finding her attractive.. look at it this way if you where circumcised would you want her to stop finding you attractive??
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    (Original post by there's too much love)
    Doesn't that depend on the circumcision?
    Maybe, but i always thought female circumcision was removal of the clitoris and there are other ways to orgasm without it (although it does help alot!)
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    (Original post by Lexi99)
    Maybe, but i always thought female circumcision was removal of the clitoris and there are other ways to orgasm without it (although it does help alot!)
    I'm pretty sure there are many types, some focussing most on the lips, some on the clitoris, some on the labia. Some on everything.

    I'm not going to type more, this is upsetting me. But if you're interested i can't imagine this information is hard to find on the net.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    trust me she's hot otherwise I wouldn't be interested in her!
    Whatta ****
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    " On June 28, 2007 Egypt banned female genital cutting after the death of 12-year-old Badour Shaker during a genital circumcision. The Guardian of Britain reported that her death "sparked widespread condemnation" of the practice. However, Britain has had its own problem confronting cases of FGC, as immigrants from Africa have been known to send their daughters to their home nations to undergo the procedure before returning to Britain. "

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_...93_Middle_East

    She probably got hers before it was banned....

    It's horrible, I can't possibly think of a reason why people would want to circumcise a girl.

    But yeah, like others have said, you should probably talk to her about it honestly, frankly and sympathetically, and do more research to find out how it could affect a relationship psychologically and sexually. OP you do sound a bit shallow, just staying with her because she's "hot". Be more empathetic, otherwise she deserves someone better and more understanding.
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    (Original post by planetearth)
    " On June 28, 2007 Egypt banned female genital cutting after the death of 12-year-old Badour Shaker during a genital circumcision. The Guardian of Britain reported that her death "sparked widespread condemnation" of the practice. However, Britain has had its own problem confronting cases of FGC, as immigrants from Africa have been known to send their daughters to their home nations to undergo the procedure before returning to Britain. "

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_...93_Middle_East

    She probably got hers before it was banned....

    It's horrible, I can't possibly think of a reason why people would want to circumcise a girl.

    But yeah, like others have said, you should probably talk to her about it honestly, frankly and sympathetically, and do more research to find out how it could affect a relationship psychologically and sexually. OP you do sound a bit shallow, just staying with her because she's "hot". Be more empathetic, otherwise she deserves someone better and more understanding.
    According to my lecturer, one tribe in Israel believe that if a girl is not circumcised she will not be able to cook properly, nor clean properly etc.
    As illogical as that seems, that is the reason girls in that tribe are circumcised. You can't be a good wife if you can't cook properly etc.
    Which obviously isn't my view, obviously I disagree, but that's what they believe.
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    Euww, thats raw.

    Yeah, I don't blame you if you wanted to jump ship.
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    I know you went through this horrible traumatic thing and you probably feel really awkward but...what about MEEEEE?
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    (Original post by louholl)
    Don't think you can anyway, aren't they supposed to be stitched together??? Leaving a bit free for obvious reasons?? Menstruate, sex and to urinate ??
    you don't urinate through your vagina :facepalm2:
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    (Original post by KKKKatie)
    you don't urinate through your vagina :facepalm2:
    Oh yeah, well at least we have ass holes.
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    (Original post by KKKKatie)
    you don't urinate through your vagina :facepalm2:
    The urethra is located only a little way above the vagina

    when the labia are stitched together, it covers the urethra too,
    so yes the hole left is also for urination
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    Anonymous#1..... when you say she is a Christian, do you mean Coptic Christian or ND Christian? there was a programme about FGM in Christian tribes on it just last night on FX.....coincidence or what! ;_;
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    (Original post by KKKKatie)
    you don't urinate through your vagina :facepalm2:
    .....a urethra is next to a vagina, you need a vagina to have intercourse......that's is why they leave that part unstiched ( to have sex, urinate and menstruate)
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    (Original post by pooo)
    It wasn't just his unwillingness to understand the sensitivity of this issue it was also his 'she's hot, I wouldn't be going out with,her otherwise' which suggests he is shallow and makes me,think his reasons for gettong squirmish are shallow as well.

    I know i'm being harsh but I have an in built defence. A very good female friend of mine who I absolutely love without a doubt was raped 8 months ago, she struggled so much, her life just fell apart. Despite the fact that she was assaulted, lost her virginity and was sober during the whole event (which was perpetrated by a guy she KNOWS) she didn't go to the police. She told me 23 weeks after the event and made me swear not to tell anyone (i wonder if this applies to the internet...oh ****), I couldn't believe it. Hearing her story had the most profound effect on me, I felt angry, confused and it was the closes i've been to tears in 10 years. I just wanted to take her and hide her away from the evil of the world. A week later she text me and said how good she felt after getting it off her chest and I was really happy especially because of the graphic detail, the tears, everything madr me think she would have felt worse, but she said she relived it almost everyday and saying it out loud almost sealed it as an event and not something that defined who she was. I was really glad and then bang, thay night she turned up at my door in tears. She had told her boyfriend AND HE DUMPED HER. Dumped her for a traumatic robbery of her diginity, her independance. A violent abuse of her feminity, that fucling boy RAPED my friend, violated her body, poisened her head with the memory and rendered her an emotional mess and her boyfriend wanted 'some time apart' after hearing this.

    That is what is wrong with me, I keep linking the two responses. I am sorry for her BF and I am sorry for OP that they are (innocently, unintentionally no doubt) so disattached from the tragedy that being an abused women means.

    Tell me to man up, tell me to grow some balls but I have no respect for someone who even refuses to try and understand and accept the scars women carry after event like these. Be it female mutilation which leaves her insecure, mutilated and effectively broken down there or raped...which is a slightly more extreme version.

    I am not right for linking the two, but I guess I too, like OP have a 'mental thing' and I cannot help but get in a rage at these such thoughts. For that I apologise.



    How dare you post details of somebody else's traumatising experience on TSR. That is sickening.
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    (Original post by louholl)
    .....a urethra is next to a vagina, you need a vagina to have intercourse......that's is why they leave that part unstiched ( to have sex, urinate and menstruate)
    You said vagina and sex in the same sentence. :ahee:
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    (Original post by Munchies-YumYum)
    You said vagina and sex in the same sentence. :ahee:
    So I did ?! lol !!!!!
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    (Original post by louholl)
    So I did ?! lol !!!!!
    Yes, I wanted to point out that you're a very naughty girl.
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    (Original post by Munchies-YumYum)
    Yes, I wanted to point out that you're a very naughty girl.
    hehe.......
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How dare you post details of somebody else's traumatising experience on TSR. That is sickening.
    :facepalm2:

    It's 'no one's' trauma. The internet is anonymous and fyi I actually found out about this all after using her laptop over night and then probing her about her internet history. She showed me a description (written 12 hours after the event) on a rape victim advice forum.

    How dare I? I dare because it was a lowly disgusting act ans you can't just shush this sort of thing - I haven't in any way insulted her by doing this or associated it with her person at all.

    If I had a friend with no front teeth and I posted on an anonymous platform about knowing someone with no front teeth it doesn't mean i'm demeaning their lack of teeth - rape doesn't define who she is.


    Also, why post anon? Unless you ARE the rapist what have you got to hide?
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    Going down on her probably wouldn't be very pleasurable for her seeing as they remove the clitoris or at least part of it....and maybe you should check the extent of the circumcision because some girls are sewn up and it's extremely hard for them to have sex.

    However, I find it odd that if she's been circumcised, she's allowed to be in bed with a guy, I mean if her parents did that to her in her childhood what will they do if they find out she's having sex......
 
 
 
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