It doesn't matter, your friendship is now over, you won't be able to go back to what your friendship was before it started. If he wasn't your roomate I would tell you to just date him, but because you live together there is that added complication.
This is a lose lose situation. If you guys decide not to date then you will have a strained relationship. However if you do date then you will be starting a relationship by already living together, which is (in my opinion) way to fast for a relationship to progress.
All you can do is choose which ever option seems less like a loss to you.
Sex with flatmate, like eachother, now what? watch
- 14-04-2011 07:23
- 14-04-2011 07:35
Good on him!
- 14-04-2011 08:04
The fact is, if he doesn't want anything more than a friendship he thinks you aren't attractive enough to introduce to his friends as you being his girlfriend.