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Some of the things said on here are really mean.

I think that if he really loved her he would have waited no matter how long it took.

He's not worth it, move on.

Reply 21

Keese

I remember the initial thread. He did everything he could for you, and waited 6 years for you. Once he realised your relationship wasn't going to reach the next level, he had a choice to make - Keep on waiting, or move on. Life's too short.

Reply 22

VeniViciVidi

Original post by BethanArianwen

Some of the things said on here are really mean.

I think that if he really loved her he would have waited no matter how long it took.

He's not worth it, move on.

..To an extent, but how would you feel if you were constantly intimately rejected without reason?

Reply 23

Anonymous #1

Original post by righteous

Dear God.

Anyone can get sex in England but I doubt they would engage in that fetish. Just wish I had known earlier that's what he wanted and we could have met the right people sooner. I think he would have stayed with sex and no fetishes but she has offered all of this and he even paid her money through Western Union. Just sad as I will miss the friendship and holiday memories.

Reply 24

Keese

Original post by Anonymous

So hold on, let me get this right...he didn't leave you because you wouldn't have sex with him, nor due to the fact it had been 6 years.....but because you wouldn't urinate on him...

That's just...well, words..I'm lost for them.

Reply 25

*Hakz*

Original post by Keese

Please tell me that's not true?

Reply 26

m45

Original post by Irrelevance

Commendation points if he actually waited six years and wasn't tapping ho's on the side.

different area codes n all as the great luda once said

Reply 27

imperial maniac

Original post by BethanArianwen

Some of the things said on here are really mean.

I think that if he really loved her he would have waited no matter how long it took.

He's not worth it, move on.

You clearly don't have a penis.

Reply 28

BethanArianwen

Original post by imperial maniac

You clearly don't have a penis.

You are correct.

Reply 29

BethanArianwen

Original post by VeniViciVidi

..To an extent, but how would you feel if you were constantly intimately rejected without reason?

There is a reason, and this isn't my relationship, but if it was me it was happening to, i'd find ways of resolving it.

Reply 30

VeniViciVidi

Original post by BethanArianwen

There is a reason, and this isn't my relationship, but if it was me it was happening to, i'd find ways of resolving it.

But what I got from the OP is that she didn't console with her ex about it. Although, the stuff about the urine stuff, I'm a little :s-smilie:

about it all.

Reply 31

BethanArianwen

Original post by VeniViciVidi

But what I got from the OP is that she didn't console with her ex about it. Although, the stuff about the urine stuff, I'm a little :s-smilie:

about it all.

Urine? What?

Reply 32

VeniViciVidi

Original post by BethanArianwen

Urine? What?

I have worked it out now. 6 years was a long time but he had a urine and faeces fetish so if she is offering sex and fetishes then he won't leave. Wish he ended it sooner. Why else go abroad?

What the OP said here.

Reply 33

Anonymous #2

Original post by BethanArianwen

Some of the things said on here are really mean.

I think that if he really loved her he would have waited no matter how long it took.

He's not worth it, move on.

Get out. NO-ONE should have to wait 6 years. Typical female talking. Get your head out of your arse.

Reply 34

BethanArianwen

Original post by Anonymous

Get out. NO-ONE should have to wait 6 years. Typical female talking. Get your head out of your arse.

Typical of you to post it anonymous, pussy.

Reply 35

BethanArianwen

Original post by VeniViciVidi

What the OP said here.

Look, i'm only going to say this once because i'm getting a few people being dicks to me because i told her to move on and stuff.

I ONLY SAID IT TO MAKE HER FEEL BETTER.

I don't actually think anyone should have to wait 6 years, i actually think there may be some underlaying trust issues as to why she didn't feel comfortable enough to do anything with him.

But that's not for me to say, that's why i only said he's not worth it and move on. She's clearly upset about it and i think that no matter how much anyone tells her she's being unreasonable for not having sex with him, she's not going to believe it. She needs to realise it by herself.