Falling for **** buddy. :(

ffs.

You're just a booty call.

From the information given you've not actually stated any reason to not be in a relationship apart from the fact you hate him having any interaction with women...
Where'd the paranoia come from?

Because the night after I told him I asked him why he said it, and it upset him.

I'm seeing him Friday, but since I upset him I'm scared he'll change his mind and go for another girl. Also, he made more effort before he said it.

Can you rewrite it so it actually makes sense.

The night after he told me he liked me and there was a possibility it could turn into something more, I upset him. I asked why he said it and asked if he'd been messing around. He got upset and asked why I'd doubt him and I'm scared I've ruined things.

I'm supposed to be seeing him Friday but I'm scared he'll change his mind and just want to keep it casual, or maybe he'll decide he wants another girl more.

I was fine with it being casual, but I do like him and I'm scared I'll get hurt.

Can you really have a relationship with someone you obviously don't trust?

I've never had a relationship before, this is my second **** buddy and I guess the idea of intimacy scares me because I've never had it.

I'm completely unused to guys wanting a relationship. I really like him but I'm just scared he's going to change his mind because it was really difficult for me to admit I had feelings for him.

You've said some pretty worrying things there but I'll focus on the subject at hand. He'd be pretty immature to change his mind over such a petty insecurity which is based on ******* tbh.

Similar situation. Feel free to PM me if you like and we can talk through things, but if you want to stay 100% anon then nvm.

But i understand being afraid of going further. As in, relationship further.

I've never had a relationship before, this is my second **** buddy and I guess the idea of intimacy scares me because I've never had it.

I'm completely unused to guys wanting a relationship. I really like him but I'm just scared he's going to change his mind because it was really difficult for me to admit I had feelings for him.