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    So I graduated last June, when off travelling for a few months with a great charity, thought that I would get a job in no time when I got back, even if not related to my field or other graduate schemes I was determined to get a job which I loved. It's now 8 months of rejections, unsuitable jobs applications, temporary work, scams, JSL, promises and let downs.
    I was so excited to get a phone call saying that I should come for an interview, I went and got a job doing door to door sales, which promised £400 a week, 50k a year once you got manager, after 3 weeks and only 3 sales I was forced to give it up. I got some work in a warehouse un-boxing computer parts, I hated it but it was money, however there was no more work there and I was left jobless again. In January a new flagship bar open up for Brians, I applied and got a really fun job, there was so much hype about the opening, we helped out with the refit, learnt a lot of stuff, The manager promised me a full time 40+hr a week, I’ve been cut back to one shift a week now.
    I got so despite that I signed up for medical trials, was enrolled on a new trial but unfortunately, due to the tsunami the company who where sponsoring the scheme pulled out. Completely understandable but still a bummer as I had plans for the £2k I would have gotten. Last week out of the blue I got an email, it said that there was an open interview with a job if you attended all 3. I waited all weekend until I got someone on the phone, I googled the company name I found it to be a bunch of scammers, taking customers money and then running.
    But don't think I’ve been lazy, I’ve tried every day for the last 8 month to get some where, I can tell you just how many pages of jobs there will be in the newspaper, I can tell you which websites are offering which jobs, and which company is posting and reposting the same job again and again.
    It's at a point where I feel so depressed about the situation I find myself in, I have no future in this city but I’m unable to move to where I really want to go, My bank account has been hovering too close for comfort to my limit for what seems like forever now. For the last 2 weeks I’ve looked up at my ceiling I thought that I have no reason to get up in the morning. I'm just at the point of giving up.
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    seems you have a un healthy obsession with money and work, most of us do but we dont realise it.


    I’ve looked up at my ceiling I thought that I have no reason to get up in the morning. I'm just at the point of giving up
    do you have family? friends? I think you need to reasess your self and perhaps do something to change your mindset. To me it sounds like life is about work work work, its not. Jobs are scarce at the moment, it is what it is. You need to change your mindset and search for what is really important in life, family freinds, helping others.

    not work and money, sure its nice, but dont be upset or depressed when you have not got it. Sometimes your ahead, sometimes your behind, the race is long, but in the end its only with yourself.
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    Sorry that you're feeling so down. I can't fix your problems but I just wanna say don't give up things will get better, promise. And someday soon you'll look back on this time of your life and be so glad that you never gave up because look where you are now

    Keep trying, you'll get there. All the best
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    (Original post by jthlm)
    Sorry that you're feeling so down. I can't fix your problems but I just wanna say don't give up things will get better, promise. And someday soon you'll look back on this time of your life and be so glad that you never gave up because look where you are now

    Keep trying, you'll get there. All the best
    You're going to study English so you'll like this. You're reply to this man has all heartfelt naivety of Miranda when she sees Ferdinand reunited with his father, Alonso: 'O, wonder! / How many goodly creatures are there here! / How beauteous mankind is! O brave new world, / That has such people in't!'. My reply to you is Prospero's snarky comeback: ''Tis new to thee'.
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    Give up mate.
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    Don't give up, don't give in someone once said life is worth living if you find your passion. Ok so what you can't find job, they are plenty of other different opportunities, you already have experience and graduated last year. Why don't you look for jobs abroad somewhere else, for example, Dubai, Hong Kong they are looking for people who have graduated it just depends on your degree that you graduated in, since you already travelled it shows that you can do. Heres a link of jobs abroad
    http://jobs.goabroad.com/
    and keep on smiling because everything little thing is gunna be alright
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    (Original post by Brevity)
    You're going to study English so you'll like this. You're reply to this man has all heartfelt naivety of Miranda when she sees Ferdinand reunited with his father, Alonso: 'O, wonder! / How many goodly creatures are there here! / How beauteous mankind is! O brave new world, / That has such people in't!'. My reply to you is Prospero's snarky comeback: ''Tis new to thee'.
    Hahaha. That was good. I see your point... But I just wanted to be positive no one on TSR is going to be able to actually help him with his problems but it's better than saying to him, oh wait. You failed. Give up now.

    Oh and since I am an English applicant, like you so kindly mentioned, I'm pedantic enough to point out that you used "you're" above when you should have used "your". But I will let that one slide this time
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    (Original post by jthlm)
    Hahaha. That was good. I see your point... But I just wanted to be positive no one on TSR is going to be able to actually help him with his problems but it's better than saying to him, oh wait. You failed. Give up now.

    Oh and since I am an English applicant, like you so kindly mentioned, I'm pedantic enough to point out that you used "you're" above when you should have used "your". But I will let that one slide this time
    I'm so embarrassed.
 
 
 
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