Original post by Riku(Aw crap. That neg's got me thinking I was eating WAY too much. Both in terms of dietary levels for health and just greed. I had a Milky Way Mini! From my selection box, dammit! dfoidudffu
Is coleslaw on a sandwich, muesli for breakfast and a Milky Way clamouring for everything in sight now? 0_0 )
Well Toto, if it smells good-and you're not going to be ill trying to!-then you know what's got to be done. How can you enjoy life too much? The only thing you can do is not live it to the full, and you must remember that ED is a half-life? Recovery might not be truly living, but it's sure as hell better than a world of number games.
The food lust, like the redistribution, will only occur when you can finally let go of the restriction, surely? I've heard that it's nigh-on impossible to gain even if you're being force-fed if you stress it all off again, which I did for a long time.
Not sure whether this is a good thing or not, but I've been feeling a LOT less stressed since I stopped forcing myself to gain, to "bulk" for the gym, to eat 4 meals a day, whatever. I've hit BMI 20 now, I just eat (fairly) normally when I'm hungry (and then some at points...), and I'm building up the confidence to properly work out again. I'm much more mindful and in the moment than I've been for a long time. What needs working on the most is emotional and reactive eating-apparently the dietician I was re-referred to said I'm only subjectively binging anyway. It's not actually how much I eat that's a problem, it's the fact I mull over it for hours after. But then we all know that's how this works.
And yeah with tea...I'm paranoid about it now. It's not even the cals thing, it's the tannins. But surely a few cups when I'm drinking milk and lifting isn't going to destroy our bone structures? (I'm not sure about you, I'm aware it's a looot riskier when underweight).
Mum won't stop bombarding me with her blessed gift cuppa and I feel threatened by alienation from the family if I say no (umm bit extreme?) and threatened by my body if I say yes. But I quite like tea so am aiming for the latter and hoping for the best.