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    You don't even deserve anyone writing TL/DR.

    But I'll say for tradition online.

    TL/DR
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    tl;dr

    i love how you constructed your post like how i do with my case study research in geography, though.

    ps. can i have a very very brief explaination of what happened? like, just a sentence or something. i will try to at least help.
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    Kingston "University" :rolleyes:

    And: tl;dr
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    someone get me the bible. id finish that quicker
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    I would say dump him for living in Coalville and date me. I live nearer.
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    (Original post by Alexisonfire)
    Kingston "University" :rolleyes:
    Yeah, nice one :rolleyes:
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    ffs tl;dr, I would care less if 90% weren't irrelevant ramble.

    Basic gist from skim reading: if he's not worth a "long distance" (not even that far) relationship to you then I dunno what the issue is, you already have your answer.
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    (Original post by street.lovin')
    tl;dr

    i love how you constructed your post like how i do with my case study research in geography, though.

    ps. can i have a very very brief explaination of what happened? like, just a sentence or something. i will try to at least help.
    That's why I split it into sections.
    The Basically part is the minimum basics, and the dilema part is what shall I do about it.

    The bits inbetween was to avoid questions, because people always say things like "well how's the relationship atm?" or want to know extra information like if I've spoke to him about it, etc, so I tried to avoid that.
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    2, 3 and 5 are basically the same.....
    I reduced your options from 5 to 3
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    the thought pops into my head like, "but there're relationships out there where girlfriends get beat up and forced into sex and he'd never be like that with me", so therefore I feel like I shouldn't leave him as I feel as though I should almost feel lucky that I've found someone who isn't like that, and that just being a bit unhappy isn't a good enough excuse to ruin it

    I am quite worried if you are getting these as prominent thoughts when evaluating your relationship...

    But in answer to your question, only you know how you feel and how stable the relationship is. You know what he thinks on the subject, so its really up to you. From what you've said, it seems you want to stay with him (you have 4 very similar options for this). Therefore, I would say do this, keep talking to him and see where it takes you!
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    Look, first of all it seems you are suffering from cognitive dissonance.
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    but there're relationships out there where girlfriends get beat up and forced into sex and he'd never be like that with m.

    This IS no reason to continue. Saying that, I wouldn't recommend ending on a high. There will ALWAYS be regrets. And, also "the one" syndrome.
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    but then I'll go back to never ever wanting to be with anyone else, and .
    What are you? 16, 17. You have a whole life ahead and are going to meet many great people so stop walling up yourself.

    And?
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    (1) end it now on a 'high' and concentrate souly on my AS exams,.

    Seriously???

    You'll concentrate after breakin up? As it is you are thinking about time spent away than time spent with. What will happen when there is no 'time spent with' ? Don't end now, atleast for the sake of your dear A Levels.

    (Original post by Grund)
    , (3) make the most of the time I have with him then go my seperate way when he leaves for uni .
    Mmm this seems tempting, and you'll get your 'ending on a high part fulfilled too' But again, after he's gone for good, you sure you'll have no 'what if' daydreams??

    Option (4) Looks THE best. You'll get to be with him. You'll be able to concentrate (that is if you stop moaning about the week without) And, if he finds someone new, so will you!! And if you both are still together, Jesus Christ, you found true love! *Church bell rings*

    P.S. Someone who truly cares would save up to atleast come down see you every month, if not every week, dont you think?
 
 
 
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